I was also used to being nagged if I didn't reply within a certain time so I thought it was normal and I'd nag him when he didn't reply and really get upset when he appeared 'online' even tho he was at work but i just had in my head he was cheating and other things I realised I was now the toxic one I had to break it off and get intense therapy I think
This was the first thing that I realised. Mia’s ex being a drug dealer- he would have been on his phone all the time so always available to her.
As he was coercively controlling I would bet they were in constant contact and he would go crazy at her if she didn’t text back etc so she kind of thinks that’s how much contact is normal for relationships now. I imagine Manley was also in contact with her constantly as he seems very clingy to me, and hated her going out so I bet he would either harass her while she was out of completely ignore her to punish her.
I imagine Chris also went on coke benders ignoring her for days also.
Two boyfriend, both in constant contact and going crazy when she doesn’t reply for them for whatever reason, while also ignoring her would give her anxiety about these things…. so maybe a bit of anxiety when Olly doesn’t reply.