I had such a similar labour experience to Melanie it’s actually weird. Baby the same weight, length of labour, trial forceps and almost a c-section until a random dr appeared and pulled my baby out. It was an awful experience and I still feel trauma from it because it went on for so long and was so far from what I expected. I was also on the labour ward for most of it lying on my back or side which was fucking shit.
When I went to theatre I remember quickly signing something (literally don’t know what I signed
) and lay there trying not to have a panic attack. I ended up with an episiotomy and I didn’t even realise until I saw the horror in the toilets mirror later in the day.
My point in all this is that I actually hated my labour and was confused by things that happened. But at the end of the day I went to theatre because the dr was concerned for my baby’s life and there was no other way of getting him out. It’s just the way it is. And it’s just the way it was for her.