Love Island 2022 #31 Jacques is LITERALLY out the window and deleted

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Dove88

I'm going there.

If Jacques was overweight and spotty he'd get crucified for his behaviour. His conventional "good looks" have swayed public opinion in his favour.
 
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JombleWomble

This! I have a mental health issue but I absolutely expect to be called out if my symptoms escalate to the point where I'm hurting other people. Calling me out at that point is the kindest thing to do, for me and for anyone I might be hurting.

When you're mentally unwell sometimes someone needs to say "hey, what you did there wasn't OK wtf was that about?" for you to realise that the illness is affecting you and your behaviour. To say that people with a mental illness shouldn't be critiqued is to overlook how helpful this can actually be.

Would Jacques have realised that he needed to leave if he hadn't been called out? We'll never know. But if someone is mentally unwell and you stay silent when their behaviour starts to affect others then that isn't "being kind", it's enabling. Whether Jacques' behaviour is down to his ADHD or down to him being a dickhead is to some extent irrelevant, whatever the cause it absolutely needs to be called out when it becomes destructive.
 
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Holmessk

Dove88 said:
I'm going there.

If Jacques was overweight and spotty he'd get crucified for his behaviour. His conventional "good looks" have swayed public opinion in his favour.
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I don't think he's good looking but good looking people do get away with more shit!
 
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AshMay

I want to see more of Indiyah and Danica's friendship, they seem so cute
 
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Wolf359

I literally work in mental health and have seen many clients with ADHD and ASD as well as trauma. Yes, it’s true that under stressful conditions they can lash out and get angry or aggressive when they’re having trouble self regulating.

But it is NOT a characteristic of ADHD for people to be bullies, intimidating, manipulative, rude or controlling. Those traits are nothing to do with mental health and everything to do with being a misogynistic, entitled, and generally not very nice or ‘kind’ person.
 
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TC14

Sorry for this but..... Adam's top lip that totally disappears when he talks, and the underbite along with the wobbly mouth is giving me serious ick!!!
 
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AshMay

Yeah Davide would be a lot less endearing and entertaining too without his good looks and Italian accent.

(And I'm as guilty for loving it as much as the rest of us, at the same time as really disliking some of his comments and behaviour )
 
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Catwoman

Think we can agree there's been severe editing around the events in last night's episode.

Think most of us would agree, Jacques behaved like a dick, even from what has been shown for a long time now.

Time for him to go, I couldn't care less if he has ADHD, chickenpox or syphilis. He behaved like a nasty prick and nothing excuses his dickish attitude and behaviour, he's lucky he was well edited in last night's episode. End of.
 
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Wolf359

Because being a gaslighting bully is nothing to do with having ADHD.
 
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livvys

Dove88 said:
I don't either personally but I can see why the Fiat 500s would get in a tizzy over him, physically.
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I don’t think his good looking at all. Looks like he eats people for a living. Weird guy.
 
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One and only

Be kind!! Stop discussing Jacques.

Let people get aggressive and treat others like dirt but it’s okay if they cry. We need to think of their feelings.
Like was said yesterday be kind is just a way for awful people to excuse their shitty behaviour and not be held accountable
 
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Nijeoasa02

Random Josh man

Dove88 said:
I'm going there.

If Jacques was overweight and spotty he'd get crucified for his behaviour. His conventional "good looks" have swayed public opinion in his favour.
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It’s like that attractive criminal Jeremy Meeks who got a modelling deal and a millionaire girlfriend. He was done for being a felon in possession of a firearm and grand theft
 
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Miss.Chanandler.Bong

Jabba125 said:
What happened here?! I didn’t watch that series!

also does anyone have trouble believing Adam is 26….more like 35!
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Two new girls arrived and got to split up 2 couples and send the girls to the hideaway for the night. Kady went a bit crazy and in that picture I posted she was pressing her face against the glass to see what was happening.
I watched a clip of it recently and when everyone downstairs sees her they’re like wtf are you doing. I think it just being a silhouette makes it scarier
 
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