I'm married to my husband for 20 years now. It hasn't been a nice marriage as my husband treats me like tit, and constantly puts me down, he has his money (and plenty of it) and I have to make do with what I have, which isn't very much as I work part-time. He would make a big deal if I ask for grocery money or if the kids need money for school etc. We don't have a joint account as he was against it.
God, looking back I was such as fool and the red flags were there.
I had an inkling that he cheated on me while we were dating but not when we were married. My suspicions were confirmed as he blurted it out during the week, and laughed at me when I got upset.
I know it was 20 years ago but at this stage do I have a right to be angry with him?
I wanted to leave the marriage for a long time now, but I'm not financially able to do it for another few years and three of my kids are still young. I fear we would struggle financially if I did now.
I don't know what I'm asking, I suppose I'm hurt because of the cheating (even though it was 20 years ago) and that I have lost the life I deserved with someone else who would have treated me better.
I have lost off my friends as he wouldn't mind the children to allow me the time to visit them. I am so lost...
God, looking back I was such as fool and the red flags were there.
I had an inkling that he cheated on me while we were dating but not when we were married. My suspicions were confirmed as he blurted it out during the week, and laughed at me when I got upset.
I know it was 20 years ago but at this stage do I have a right to be angry with him?
I wanted to leave the marriage for a long time now, but I'm not financially able to do it for another few years and three of my kids are still young. I fear we would struggle financially if I did now.
I don't know what I'm asking, I suppose I'm hurt because of the cheating (even though it was 20 years ago) and that I have lost the life I deserved with someone else who would have treated me better.
I have lost off my friends as he wouldn't mind the children to allow me the time to visit them. I am so lost...