Leila Stead - theleilarae

[So many of you have asked]

I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thinks she is the absolute worst!

The hardest thing to recap about her are all of the lies she has told. Jesus wept, this woman is a pathological LIAR.

Apologies in advance for the essay, I’m on night shifts this week so what better way to let off some sleep deprived lunacy then to rant here

The recap with Evers Dad is this; Scott and Liela were only together a few months when she “accidentally’ fell pregnant, Scott asked Liela to have an abortion after she had already told everyone she was pregnant at approx 7 weeks? His family also didn’t think it was a good idea (they obviously saw the huge red flags) so Liela got angry and threatened to stab Scott, he then left her and refused to have anything to do with her or the pregnancy, she apparently had an episode with an extension cord that resulted in her being placed on a mental health ward for a 48 hour hold, she has talked about the nurses being mean to her but I think they were actually pissed with her for taking up a bed that could of been used by someone who actually required help and not a manipulative narcissist who was making a play for attention. Scott continued to ghost Liela and her family until Ever was a couple of days old. Liela continued to run him down on her blog and her mood towards him would wildly swing between hating him or being obsessed about them getting back together again, this carried on throughout her pregnancy and Evers early years.

Fast forward to when Ever was around 18 months, Liela continued to write shit about him on her single mum diaries as he obviously wanted nothing to do with her and only with Ever. Then he got a girlfriend and she went on a couple of lives tearing this girl down, calling her classless and slut shamed her because she posted some risqué pictures on her gram (Lol the irony) she then wouldn’t let Scott see Ever and insisted it was because she heard that Scott and his girlfriend were both drug addicts and it was for Evers safety.

Liela then refused to let Ever spend time with her Dad or his family for almost a year. Just prior to this period she also had a big fight with her Mum who she lived with throughout her pregnancy and when Ever was born, she got some money from her blog taking off and moved into her first aesthetically pleasing abode with her Dad. After Evers 1at birthday she epically fell out with her circle of girlfriends, then fell out with her live in photographer/baby sitter Amanda… but Elle who was always waiting in the wings largely ignored by big sis, finally got her time to shine online as Liela had no other friends left.

During this busy period Liela started to unravel online and her popularity started to take a nose dive. I think people started to see through the lies (well I did) Scott got an AVO against her, Liela tried to emasculate him by laughing and saying that he needed it to “feel safe” so that’s why the judge granted it and that he will have to live with what he has done to ‘the mother of his child’ forever!. After this happened she certainly ceased talking about him in the manner that she once used to and they are now co-parents when it suits Liela, he has Ever regularly and his parents obviously love her but Liela can’t get over that he doesn’t pay her the child support she feels owed. I’m sure he actually does but Liela and the truth rarely ever cross paths.

I’ve been following her on and off since she was pregnant, I’ve probably forgotten a bunch of stuff because she’s a wreck of a woman, it’s crazy how progressively entitled, nasty and dishonest she became as her popularity grew. Her popularity has been stagnant for 4 years now and her attempts to reignite her online presence are just getting increasingly desperate by the year.

One thing that has stayed consistent is how toxic her relationship with her Mum is, she has talked so much shit about her, called her Mum crazy and stupid when Ever was a baby and she was trying to help out. Liela previously mentioned that one of her step-dads was a pedophile whilst Elle lived with him and her Mum helped send him to jail. It sounds like her Mum wasn’t always able to provide a stable environment for Liela or Elle and Liela holds onto resentment. I also remember the story about her Mum studying so hard to become a nurse, if she had post-it notes around the house to pass a basic cert 3 in aged care I’m thinking there might be a learning or intellectual disability that’s gone untold. Her Mum may very well have been showing signs for years with memory issues and the cancer really took a toll on her physically and mentally . It is certainly a quick turn around from being released from 24 hour care facility in early Oct to be going back to work within a fortnight and needing a vaccine. None of this story adds up.

The question now is, how far is old gal gonna go? she keeps upping the ante on her delusional and dangerous need to fulfil her need for fame, this can only get worse right?

I’ve been riding this crazy train so long now I wonder if it ever will end or if finally someone will come and #SaveEver

 

[skinnypiccolo]

Okay here’s a quick recap of Leila TaraH’s ex boyfriends who have met Ever in the last few years.

Dan. Single dad to 2 boys. Went out for about 6 weeks, they had the boys and Ever all playing together at Dan’s place, TaraH had (might still have) a Pinterest board called “boys room” dedicated to them. TaraH ridiculed him for being white girl wasted, he built Ever a cubbyhouse for Christmas. They had broken up by New Years Eve. His account is still on private.

Haydn K. TaraH was his side piece. She flaunted him on her socials, took him to a #sp #gifted #ad Brisbane hotel for the weekend, got pregnant. She posted pics of her “6 week bump” then *shock horror* miscarried and celebrated that miscarriage. He is now with his long term partner and they have a baby girl together.

Craig C—-dy . Male life coach, father of 1. Lots of toxic masculinity here. Once again played happy families with Craig, his son and Ever. Dated for 4-6 weeks. He loves the gym and there isn’t much more to say about him. He’s a good time. His Insta is on another level.

Mark Kiwi. Again posting pics of him in bed with Ever, Mark taking Ever out to breakfast dates after 3-4 weeks of dating. Loved to drop the “babe” in lives, show how loved up they were except he looked miserable in every single shot. Think he made it to 2 months of dating but probably got sick of everything being documented. He’s living his best life.

And by far my favourite. Brad Watto. Met in lockdown while he was in NSW and she was in QLD. Dedicated a whole Instagram post about them trying to conceive while he was in another state. Very hot and heavy, he and his unmoving thanks to Botox face seemed to love the attention on Instagram when they finally met in real life. He moved to QLD, went out for about 3-4 months, he played stepdad to Ever, they went on a camper van holiday with all 3 of them in the same camper bed. He took TaraH and Ever back to NSW to meet his family with Ever up the front of the camper van illegally restrained (no child seat or booster seat) while driving long distances. It disgusts me to think of what Ever witnessed while they claim they were desperate for a baby and trying to conceive. He went from being married to a 10 out of 10 eastern suburbs glamour (Belle C) to TaraH.

At least 5 men in pretty quick succession and ever is only 5.

 

[bythewasteside]

She is surely the most persecuted person living, if not in the history of mankind.

I didn’t realise that walking back half truths and outright lies was actually selflessly diluting yourself. If all those hour long evening rants on vaccinations and *rise up*, plandemic etc was after much dilution, concentrate would definitely be someone that lux brands want representing them. Nevermind that other influencers are routinely dropped for much much less, if not for the hordes of trolls, Audi would be falling over themselves for her brand. Mm yes the logic follows.

of course, no evidence or receipts for any of these nasty troll messages, the handful she has ever been sent (or manufactured herself) she has gleefully shared, and given she is not above throwing trolleys into other people’s cars and directing people to harass small businesses for just … following the law, I doubt she is protecting anyone’s privacy.

There also seems to be no testimonials on this life changing coaching she so successfully provides, for someone who is always “just coming off a call with one of my gorgeous clients”. Just take her word for it.

the victim narrative is one that always manages to bump her engagement up a bit, little surprise to see her ~~** manifesting **~~ some bullying and harassment seeing as her other drawcard, the anti vax rhetoric is probably not as cool while the country is spanked by the reality of omicron and her mum has rudely declined to die for content.

I just can’t with this drongo.

 

[So many of you have asked]

I think my favourite was the last boyfriend and how full on and certain it all was then over.

Rinse and repeat with every guy, I mean Babe, that she latches onto and has them sharing a bed with her and Ever within weeks.

Poor Dan who she filmed naked in the shower whilst she belittled him for being ‘white girl wasted”

Craig Cassidy is still worth a giggle with his life coach page.

But my all time fave man drama is when she hooked up with one of her many exes, who she was sneaking in for quickies whilst Ever was asleep, she then got pregnant to him within minutes and apparently had a miscarriage whilst they stayed the weekend at a hotel she scored for #sp content, she was carrying on about how she couldn’t use the luxury swimming pool as she was dramatically losing her baby, then a week or so later it turned out this guy had a serious girlfriend interstate and Liela was just the side bit, she went offffffff on a live, god it was amazing for everyone except poor Ever who is a prisoner and witness to that beast and all of her toxic behaviours.

 

[beigebabe]

The way she speaks about her customers regarding the photography and the postage is so juvenile and rude. She is so snide and righteous. She preaches love and open mindness but she continues to display crass replies. She is simply not a nice person.

A while back, she had a “terrible flu”, I think it was her third flu in as many weeks, sick and tired of her lying and claiming a sniffle is “the flu”, I messaged her asking how she was feeling, she replied asking what I was talking about, I reminded her of her “terrible flu”
Next minute I received a voice message saying “why the FUCK would you ask someone about their flu” I can’t remember the rest, she went on to call me brain dead, a ******, fucking idiot, dumb bitch, she’s just so charming, then blocked me, I love it when the trash takes it self out. You’d think for someone with a history of at least 10 cases of the flu a year she’d be more inclined to be jabbed, I mean her history of respiratory illness isn’t great, then again what she really needs is a vaccine against bullshitting and cheating hard working people (as well as other idiots) out of their money.

 

[hairytoes2]

Because I have too much time on my hands I checked how much stock was in the store at the start of the sale and just checked again at the end of the sale.
Leila has sold 3 items at $49 each - the 30% off. A whole $102.90! Woo hoo. Covered the cost of another 100 items from AliBaba

 

[Gretelgottago]

You sound like me! Night shift unite.
I remember watching and reading thinking something was not right with her but then thinking is was just me being a judgy biatch. I thought I was obviously missing something and I was the one with the issue because she was sooooo great. Then I found GOMI and omg I felt seen, I was not the only one!!! Then she has just continued to be vile in possibly every way a human can be. She has progressed in no area of her life.
The fallout from her friend group was a longtime coming, they really tried to keep it quiet, private and classy. But not Tarah, she went on the defence and absolutely bad mouthed and lied at every opportunity. She was obviously triggered and jealous by their success and stability, something she isn't.
Good ole Tarah havver of much university education and writer, world traveller, glass ceiling career woman, corporate expert, interior designer, doula, photographer, special needs teacher, model, casino waitress, counsellor, jewellery artist, life coach, wellness warrior, activist. Have I missed anything?


Ahh the sister. Announces the love of her life within 5 minutes of meeting up a roided up bogan who gives her a second look. I feel sorry for her kids. Last guy she claims DV and stalking after declaring him her new baby daddy now a new one on the scene. Much protection, much child protection.

Just waiting in line for my second jab so felt like the appropriate time to make a list of our girl’s career accomplishments to date. I may have missed a few as she is a woman of many talents!

-University student

-Flight attendant

-Casino worker

-waitress

-special needs teacher

-Interior designer

-Writer

-Influencer

-ever the after. (Curator of overpriced second hand shit and marked up Ali baba bags)

-makeup range creator (whatever happened to that I wonder)

-doula

-photographer

-author (again, where is the book homegirl)

-a whole 5 minutes as an arbonne MLM hun

-concept store owner (alibaba jewelry)

-intuitive women’s business mentor

-first ever single parent

-narcissist

-freedom fighter

 

[skinnypiccolo]

‘A lot of people are blowing up my inbox’ - no they’re fucken not

Pics or it never happened. Imagine being 35 years old, a single mum left pregnant with a long list of illustrious careers, an imaginary uni degree and several extremely successful and healthy long term relationships behind you only to have absolutely zero self awareness. For someone who is so “multi passionate” (barf) and who only pursues things that set her soul on fire, you’d think girlfriend would be a better person that someone who entered the “arena” (JFC you can’t make this shit up) years ago to help each and every solo parent in distress.

Love her quote “pursue things that set your soul on fire”. Mate the only thing on fire are your pants. Liar liar pants on fire.

 

[lifeispeachy]

Wot??

 

[Expresso Martini]

Anyone got screenshots of her Q&A? I was sadly blocked ages ago and do miss her nonsense.

Screen shots incoming now

 

[emmygluewho]

Fuck I love Leils, she truly makes me realise just how stable I am.

 

[therealsmilf]

I'm no expert, but waking your kid up at 430am on their first day back at school and expecting them to be able to get through a whole day of school seems like a dick move to me.

 

[Don't_ask_what_I_drive]

I hate the narrative of 'I SURVIVED Covid because I'm a wellness warrior who takes so many vitamins and only eat organic food!!' It's completely tone deaf and basically says that only old, fat, poor people die or suffer with it.
Considering she's regularly incapacitated by the 'flu' several times a year, I'm very surprised she claims to be up and about this time.

 

[thatdidnthappen]

“We need to protect our elderly”

Is she full cooked in the head? (Obviously yes)

NOW we need to protect our elderly tarah? What about when you were protesting for your freedom? When we were in a lockdown to you know PROTECT OUR ELDERLY? Or wear a mask? To ya know PROTECT THE ELDERLY.
The biggest f u to her.
What an absolute stain.

 

[aussieanonforlyf]

I’m just still so delighted by the complete reversal of her very loud deletion and return to business-only account of what - two weeks ago?! It is SUPER entertaining.

I don't really care about her selling cheap shit for ridiculous prices - not an uncommon business model although those mark-ups are pretty extraordinary. A sham and a scam indeed. Caveat emptor. The fact that she talks about making the jewellery all the time is HILARIOUS though. And as someone pointed out above - once that shine rubs off them I don't think you'll be getting too many return customers at those prices.

COVID coming and going in waves seems to be very common - I don't wish anyone ill but jesus christ, the INFURIATION with the absolute BS changing narrative and the sheer selfishness of her imbecilic anti-vaxxer approach. How does she think a child, an elderly person, someone with cancer would cope going through the relatively mild dose she is having?

It's a toss up for me between her and Anna-Rose. The worst Australian people on the gram for me.

 

[thatdidnthappen]

We come here to discuss problematic behaviour because we aren’t the type of people to spam nasty comments and dms. Really over influencers who can’t acknowledge their poor behaviour so just claim they’re being bullied and trolled.
No. You’re a bad person Tarah and you’ve put your shitty personality & lies out there so we come to a forum to discuss rather than call you a crappy person to your face.
Because we have manners.

 

[influenzaaaaa]

Lie-la is clearly cluster B personality (medical professional here ), no doubt stemming from her relationship with mum in childhood. I’m also a single mum (however I am proudly nothing like that woman) and used to follow her back in the single mother diary days but realised very early on that she is dangerously unstable, manipulative and poorly attached to her child. Does anyone else remember when she used to film stories abusing the kid? Correct me if I’m wrong but i remember her berating her young toddler on IG and maybe even pushing/shoving her? She reinvents herself every month and changes her beliefs according to her latest agenda or boyfriend. I feel so sorry for her daughter, unfortunately there is a huge risk the cycle will continue which is heartbreaking.
Sorry. Has to get that pent up rant out!

 

[muchsmartmanybrain]

I got a minute in and just couldn’t take it

Oh my god.

Here we go. I’m taking one for the team. omg I can’t

Can I just say… this podcast is pitiful. The worst part is that she actually believes the shit she’s saying. Wow so she’s also been a “buyer” for a client before? And always getting asked where she buys her clothes from? By who exactly? Probably so they can steer clear of said store

*** guys I tried to listen, I really did. But if I heard “self taught myself” one more time, I was going to throw my phone.

 

[timtams]

Moving over the NSW border during a pandemic, with no urgent reason to do so..is the ultimate leila fuckery for me.Taking Ever away from her school, father, family ( who provide the only sound care for her)for what!! Shes anti - common sense .so she did it to have a reason to fuck up everyone else in Evers life and have something else to whinge about.

The school thing really gets me, I’m almost certain Ever had already been to 2 schools in QLD in her first year of school, because Liela moved to that shitty cupboard and said she wasn’t happy with the original school anyway so she was ok to change schools. Which means she’s now been to 3 different schools all in her first year, plus Liela’s homeschooling or unschooling or whatever she was on about for about 5 minutes.

She never should’ve had a child, apart from being incredibly mentally unwell and also extremely narcissistic, she’s the most self-centered selfish person. I too am a single parent (I guess that makes me the second ever single parent in the world!!!) and I purchased a townhouse 5 years ago with my own hard earned money, in an area with a nice little primary school, as I valued stability and security for him over my own needs. Wouldn’t it’ve been nice for Ever who is not going to be able to have a secure attachment with Liela due to her issues, and has been kept from family/used as a pawn in Liela’s own games, to have at least some stability through school, friends and teachers. She really is just something else.

(I understand sometimes people have no choice but to move their children for various reasons, but obviously Liela’s rationales have zero legitimacy so this different)

 

[So many of you have asked]

Someone left a review of her photography business on product review.com.au and honestly it sounds so on brand for her.

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SO on brand but what a cunt! I would attempt to have the money refunded if it was via PayPal or on a credit card