Mrs Cucumber
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I never knew it took so many people to organise a baby shower! I would just be pleased I didn't have to do anything lol
While I agree that you're entitled to feel how you feel and that your feelings are valid, your sister in law is equally entitled to choose who she wants to plan her baby shower and shouldn't be made to feel bad for choosing the people she wants to do it. I think if your husband was to speak to his brother it would cause bad feeling or at the very least awkwardness and next time you were asked to do anything you wouldn't know if it was genuinely because they wanted you to or were scared of offending you.You’re entitled to your feelings and if you feel left out, whether they meant it or not, how you feel is valid.
I always think when it comes to in laws, even if you’ve a great relationship with them it’s up to the hubby to say something where possible. Could he chat to his brother and suss it out ? Even informally so you won’t feel like you’re stirring anything ?
That’s a fair point tooWhile I agree that you're entitled to feel how you feel and that your feelings are valid, your sister in law is equally entitled to choose who she wants to plan her baby shower and shouldn't be made to feel bad for choosing the people she wants to do it. I think if your husband was to speak to his brother it would cause bad feeling or at the very least awkwardness and next time you were asked to do anything you wouldn't know if it was genuinely because they wanted you to or were scared of offending you.