TheGhostofShirleyBallas
Chatty Member
Girls, her behaviour is starting to make me feel very uncomfortable. I've been struggling to verbalise how, but this is the best way I can put it: you all know how I feel about her slimming her pics, but now she's posting the body positivity stuff by Dove, further validating her lies. I'm not sure if you're familiar with the term "gaslighting", it's from an old movie where a man convinces his wife she's mentally unstable so she will believe his lies. It's now considered to be a form of domestic abuse.
Now, I know gaslighting traditionally applies to domestic relationships, but it's exactly what Truff is doing in her relationship with her followers. She's lying, then going to extreme lengths to validate those lies as not to get caught out. It's the whole "ignore everyone else, babe, I'm the only one who's honest with you" gambit. I don't think she's intelligent, but she's certainly very devious, and it concerns me that she's able to get away with it.
What a rotten little weasel.
Now, I know gaslighting traditionally applies to domestic relationships, but it's exactly what Truff is doing in her relationship with her followers. She's lying, then going to extreme lengths to validate those lies as not to get caught out. It's the whole "ignore everyone else, babe, I'm the only one who's honest with you" gambit. I don't think she's intelligent, but she's certainly very devious, and it concerns me that she's able to get away with it.
What a rotten little weasel.