I’d probably respect her if she was more honest, I’ve never heard anyone describe having an emergency c section as amazing. I’ve never had kids unfortunately but hats off to any woman who has gone through childbirth naturally or Caesarian!
if she came on and said I’m fucking knackered, kids not slept all night, won’t eat anything but nuggets she’d be far more relatable. No one likes a show off in life, at the moment it’s hard enough for people, so many I know are struggling mentally, me included, and then for her to go on to her young followers like life is perfect is fucking sly.
If any one thinks that they’re a failure becuase life isn’t perfect based on these liars with fake lives on Instagram, then believe me, that’s what real life is. Ups and downs, highs and lows, tears, tantrums (even at my old age), money worries because you've spent more than you should have, it’s all totally normal.
Real life isn’t waking up each morning with a spring in your step every single day with no worries or problems.
I know for a fact if all this was around when I was 18, I’d have been in serious trouble mentally. No way would I have coped. She needs to think about what kind of impression she’s giving people that follow her.
I had a friend who was similar, I’d known her for years and years (think I’ve said this before) but all she ever did was tell me how great her life was, how all her family were swimming in money with not a care in the world, and it made me so so miserable. I felt like I wasn’t good enough and had failed at everything, even though I had a good job and my own car and house! I had to delete her out of my life for my own good. So the moral of the story is never believe anything you see online, and never compare your life to someone else’s and think that they’re better than you. We all end up in the same box when we die!!
I don’t half go on don’t I, and I’ve not even had a drink
And all this kids food shit that she does! Some people don’t have the money to make chicken in black bean sauce, or batch cook. Some mums struggle to put food on the table!! All gives the wrong impression to mums. If your kid will only eat a ham butty, give them a ham butty! If you haven’t got time to batch cook, don’t do it and never feel bad for not doing it!
In my baby years I think most kids survived on a diet of crisps, cheap food blitzed together and jam butties, sometimes I ate soil because I liked it
we all turned out fine so stop pressuring people into thinking that’s what you need to do to be a good mum.
If your pram isn’t electric and you bought it at a charity shop, who cares!! Someone walking round with a fancy pram bought on the never never is no better than you!
Never buy things with money you don’t have to impress people you don’t like!