Eileen is super cute actually, her personality is cute, her vids are cute, her pink hair is cute and she's so interesting to listen to because she's older and has had so many experiences. I always found their little sexual adventure to be quite adorable lol, and pretty innocent overall, despite Eileen's sketchy past and their talk of sexual stuff on their channel. With active effort, I'm able to see what Julia sees in Eileen, and why she was initially so into her. I can see how and why Julia forgave many things, even the more questionable ones like Eileens arrest and the aftermath, but lately I am seriously starting to have a harder and harder time understanding why Julia pardons all of this.
This marriage could've worked but Eileen is just so old and.. tired. It's not even an age thing at this point it's just that she looks done with life sometimes. She always looks tired and has low energy, she stays at home most of the time and doesn't even work. All this free time to go to the gym, or at least be active but she just stays home. In fact their viewers were pretty upset to find out recently that Eileen basically confirmed in a q&a they did that she's not gonna make videos anymore because she doesn't want to 'work anymore' like bitch you are sitting in front of a camera and rambling, that's it. Yes maybe it's time consuming, but she isn't even the one editing the videos, Julia is! Like if even making her little youtube videos is too much work for her at this point then I don't know what to say. No effort whatsoever. This must have been disappointing for Julia, who I'm sure must have been very happy initially to see her girlfriend developing new similar interests as her like creating online content, only for her to completely drop this shortly after. Especially frustrating for her because it's not like Eileen is a busy person, or someone who regularly or routinely makes content. She would only post every now and then anyway. And as we know, Eileen spends A LOT of time in that little apartment of theirs with a lot of spare time. Eileen isn't even the one who does the cooking and cleaning.
They both had this clear fetish and interest for women of a ... different generation group lets just say. Julia has a thing for older women and she just has a thing for Eileen ok. It's weird, we all know it, we're all thinking it, it's extremely awkward at family gatherings, but yes I believe their love is real. I mean just look at all the red flags Julia ignored, any normal 25 year old attractive woman would absolutely NOT want to be in a marriage with Eileen Defreest. Eileen is so unbelievably lucky to have found Julia because no other hot fun girl in that age group would put up with the stuff Julia has dealt with and we're only 2 and a half years into this marriage.