Jules Coffey

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Not relatable at all. With a real nasty streak she barely hides. You can tell she judges people who don’t look like her, eat like her, live like her. She would hate 85% of her own followers if she met them.
 
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I love the condescending “first paddle pop” or only a treat once a month chocolate type posts she does. We get it Jules you are sahhhh healthy. She is very thing in real life. No body shape or tone to her at all though.
 
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That Tupperware thing was her attempt to be “just like other mums” except she pulled out two containers and then pretended to be frustrated and it the whole staged “reality” thing was just awkward as duck.

And then another dig at Haddie with food. I mean, do people laugh at that? That must be why she does it. She must think it’s a funny in-joke with her followers with people writing to her saying “oh haha funny Haddie loves her food!”.

So she’s just making fun of her own kid every single day to make strangers laugh. Nice.
 
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I find her draining because I think she’s trying to be relatable… like who wants to come across as smarmy and Pollyanna with healthy kids, lovely new home, clearly not short of a quid, etc. but it comes across as absolutely tone deaf and out of touch with reality. Some people do a beautiful job of sharing their lives and striking a balance between banal / normal and gratitude / inspiration which doesn’t make people feel like tit. Jules is basically just sharing every boring stream of consciousness thought which makes her sound like ungrateful and completely unaware of how her privilege sounds. Especially in this day and age.

She has made her entire boring and neurotic personality about eating “healthy” and shaming a kid who is a normal kid. It’s fkn weird.
 
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I know it’s all fake friends for the Gram, but her and Sarah Kearns are the most unlikely pairing. Jules going on about first paddlepops or her kids not knowing how to eat an ice block. Sarah’s kids guzzling soft drink and milkshakes 24/7. And yeah, my friends and I parent our kids differently. But Jules’s entire smug attitude over it is not comparable with the Kearns at all.
 
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I followed Jules when Emmy was a baby & they lived in that little house they renovated. She then fell pregnant with Hadley and they sold their home and were renting. Does anyone remember how she used to make fun of the kitchen in their rental? The carpet in the bedrooms? She always had to mention to her followers that it was ‘only a rental’.

I used to really enjoy following her, I found her relatable and genuinely funny. I don’t know what happened to her.

I started to find her quite triggering when she started floating around the idea of wanting another baby (after Hadley). I had my first born a couple of months before Hadley was born and we have struggled with secondary infertility ever since. I used to find it upsetting that she’d ask her followers “should we have another baby, or shouldn’t we”? More than likely for engagement. For some followers, they don’t have a choice as to decide if or when they should add to their family. Of course when they started trying she was honest in the fact that it happened for them “first try”.

Anyway, that’s obviously only personal to me, but after that I had to unfollow. Along with anti-vax, my child doesn’t know how to hold an ice block, they love seaweed etc etc posts.
 
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I know it’s all fake friends for the Gram, but her and Sarah Kearns are the most unlikely pairing. Jules going on about first paddlepops or her kids not knowing how to eat an ice block. Sarah’s kids guzzling soft drink and milkshakes 24/7. And yeah, my friends and I parent our kids differently. But Jules’s entire smug attitude over it is not comparable with the Kearns at all.
I think their parenting styles are completely different but their personalities are quite similar. ie, they think they’re superior to everyone else, they barely work but people just ‘don’t understand’ how busy they are, they’re witchy and judgemental and materialistic and shallow.
Sarah packages this with smarmy parenting advice and barely concealed hostility and Jules packages it with “I’m just an anxious harmless little bird” and barely concealed superiority.
 
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I think their parenting styles are completely different but their personalities are quite similar. ie, they think they’re superior to everyone else, they barely work but people just ‘don’t understand’ how busy they are, they’re witchy and judgemental and materialistic and shallow.
Sarah packages this with smarmy parenting advice and barely concealed hostility and Jules packages it with “I’m just an anxious harmless little bird” and barely concealed superiority.
So well described at the end! She definitely plays up to the narrative of being an anxious harmless little bird 😂 and I couldn’t agree more, although different parenting styles, both her and beaky kearns are so superficial & shallow.

How’s Jules latest rant about the mice. She’s “shaken to her core” guys. Over a mouse. Because GASP she can’t even bear the idea of a random cat in her immaculate home. God spare me. Tone deaf much? Children were just shot to dead while at school across the globe, but these bloody influencers live in a bubble don’t they!
 
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STFU Jules and address your obsession with food is not healthy for your children.
As a parent, i find it really upsetting that so much of her content is around her own food issues. We know that girls in particular growing up in this era are struggling with body image and eating disorders at higher rates than ever before.

Why on earth would you make fun of your child for eating? Far out!
 
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STFU Jules and address your obsession with food is not healthy for your children.
I’m so sad for this poor girl. I think Jules is trying to be funny or something? But she clearly has really deep issues with food and is 100% projecting them on to these kids. No doubt if she hadn’t restricted Hadley so much when she was younger (and now), she’d be more in tune with her body and hunger and fullness queues. She’s constantly posting about stopping binge behaviour from Hadley, instead of letting her figure it out.
 
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I’m so sad for this poor girl. I think Jules is trying to be funny or something? But she clearly has really deep issues with food and is 100% projecting them on to these kids. No doubt if she hadn’t restricted Hadley so much when she was younger (and now), she’d be more in tune with her body and hunger and fullness queues. She’s constantly posting about stopping binge behaviour from Hadley, instead of letting her figure it out.
It’s frustrating to watch. She constantly positions both her girls as one is the good, neat as a pin type, organised and the other is chaotic, messy etc and seemed to really want a boy as the third. I find the stereotypes frustrating. Girls can be whatever they want and only having girls she seems to be set on perpetuating stereotypes on girls being submissive. The eating stuff seems to be a problematic grab for content because she is boring and unrelatable otherwise. She also tends to lean into anxiety/neurosis instead of addressing it or not projecting it onto her kids. “My pristine house is messy because I have children” being a shock or causing her to spiral is just insulting and ridiculous. Get over yourself. How have you had three and not twigged they are loud, creative, intense children who are NOT mini adults. I hope Hadley gives her hell and keeps to her core. I want to see more girls being much more confident and assertive. I want to see them swearing and taking up space and not apologising. I get so irritated watching her stories because I find it so out of touch, and devoid of any gratitude for her life.
 
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Hey Jules, when you get married you change all your documentation and ID if you change your name. You didn’t get married last week, you’ve had plenty of time to change it
 
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Why are they even going!?!?! Could have waited another 2-3 years would be so much easier. I think maybe she said to visit family in London? Could be wrong. If so you don’t need to go for 7 weeks and add in USA, could of just cut the trip in half just done England would of been less stress. It’s almost like she thrives of chaos
 
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Hey Jules, when you get married you change all your documentation and ID if you change your name. You didn’t get married last week, you’ve had plenty of time to change it
Now she’s saying there’s no team available to do a name change on the weekend so she’s got a second seat on hold and will have to take marriage Cert to airport & hope for the best. Firstly for someone who used to work for an airline she doesn’t know much, and secondly she’s saying the other seat is in a different section of the plane, yes but if you use that one, your other one gets cancelled and you’d sit in the original location - come on!
 
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She’s carrying on like she’s being forced to go against her will. Is she trying to get sympathy? Is a single person out there thinking “oh no, poor thing is going on an extended expensive overseas trip I feel so bad for her!” She literally cannot not whine.
 
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