Jules Coffey

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So they get chips and a decent size meal while the girls have to share a burger and a tiny side of carrots and dip and a tiny bowl of tiny avo dip
I noticed that too! I personally have 3 kids also and they would demolish that meal on their own. Had she ever considered they are hangry and acting out 🤦‍♀️🤨
 
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My kids would still be hungry after that, it really annoys me when people eat out and don’t just let their kids enjoy the experience too. There are a few people on Instagram who make a point of saying they make their kids eat veggies before they get to share a kids meal.. Why are people so hell bent on controlling everything that goes into their kids mouths? Mine eat a really healthy diet 80/90% of the time, but when we go out for dinner or go to parties, they get to choose what they eat. And on any day, they decide when they’re full. I’d never limit what they can eat, especially at meal times. She really limits their food, the dinners she’s shown are more like what my kids have as snacks, that is not enough for dinner. There’s no large, carbs or protein to fill them up. It seems she also limits her husbands food too…
It’s obviously a part of her anxiety/ocd/neurosis, but honestly, she needs help if, to feel in control of her life, she needs to control her families eating habits. My husband would not accept this at all.
 
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My kids would still be hungry after that, it really annoys me when people eat out and don’t just let their kids enjoy the experience too. There are a few people on Instagram who make a point of saying they make their kids eat veggies before they get to share a kids meal.. Why are people so hell bent on controlling everything that goes into their kids mouths? Mine eat a really healthy diet 80/90% of the time, but when we go out for dinner or go to parties, they get to choose what they eat. And on any day, they decide when they’re full. I’d never limit what they can eat, especially at meal times. She really limits their food, the dinners she’s shown are more like what my kids have as snacks, that is not enough for dinner. There’s no large, carbs or protein to fill them up. It seems she also limits her husbands food too…
It’s obviously a part of her anxiety/ocd/neurosis, but honestly, she needs help if, to feel in control of her life, she needs to control her families eating habits. My husband would not accept this at all.
Beautifully said. The food she’s presented as what those kids eat seems to not fill them up if Hadley is always asking for more or going into the kitchen for her own snacks and what not. If I were a kid running around, I’m not sure veggie sticks and some seaweed is going to fill me up. It’s sad because she has on more than one occasion labelled treat food as naughty or lectured Hadley on why she can’t have it. What kind of messaging is that plus this in that picture I can have my chips but the girls can’t? What the actual duck? This is like perfect breeding ground for bingeing/hoarding food. I can nearly guarantee it. We have a lot better information now (plus misinformation unfortunately 🤪) talking about intuitive eating, trusting kids natural instincts, not putting labels on bad/good food etc.
I find her moralising about food (nitrate free bacon - paying twice the price for no reason) so out of touch and indicative of how she must believe you can be a good person/prevent disease JUST by eating organic veggies.
Newsflash/ it’s a lot more complicated than that. In this climate of rocketing food prices, it’s bleeping snobbish and elitist. Some people are just trying to keep a roof over their head, their kids fed and car fuelled.
I would like to know who is earnestly following her and finds her content interesting. She’s not funny or witty, she sounds like she has anxiety, and it’s uncomfortable to watch.
 
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I just don’t understand Jules. That story of Haddie crying absolutely broke my heart. Why couldn’t she go play with the cousins, too? I just can’t shake the feeling that Emmi is their golden child and Haddie is forever not good enough. So sad.
 
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I just don’t understand Jules. That story of Haddie crying absolutely broke my heart. Why couldn’t she go play with the cousins, too? I just can’t shake the feeling that Emmi is their golden child and Haddie is forever not good enough. So sad.
i get the vibe that Emmi gives her hell and Haddie is the golden child tbh.
 
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I came to say the same thing. Crying because she’s going to miss her sis but also because she’s missing out on fun times with cousins!! Instead she has to sit in a fancy restaurant. Makes no sense. Poor middle child.
 
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Tell me you have issues with food without telling me you have issues with food 😳 it’s the star eyes emoji for me - imagine making that kind of commentary about your girls on a public page!! Good little Emmi has half but little piggy Haddie licks the bowl, poor little sweetheart. Most kids lick the damm bowl!
 

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Tell me you have issues with food without telling me you have issues with food 😳 it’s the star eyes emoji for me - imagine making that kind of commentary about your girls on a public page!! Good little Emmi has half but little piggy Haddie licks the bowl, poor little sweetheart. Most kids lick the damm bowl!
I feel like Haddie being enthusiastic about her food is basically her entire content angle. The only thing in her life that has colour or interest or personality. Everything is neurotic beige boring stream of consciousness rambling
 
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She should be grateful her child loves to eat! So many parents struggle… she’s also the cutest one of the girls….
 
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Maybe if she gave Hadley her sisters half that she didn’t want she wouldn’t have to lick the small bowl…
 
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Tell me you have issues with food without telling me you have issues with food 😳 it’s the star eyes emoji for me - imagine making that kind of commentary about your girls on a public page!! Good little Emmi has half but little piggy Haddie licks the bowl, poor little sweetheart. Most kids lick the damm bowl!
This is awful. The 🤩 is like she’s praising her eldest for not wanting more food??? bleeping hell is she training her kid to be anorexic or something? Like good girl Emmi, you’re such a star for saying you don’t want more food. Proud of you. 🤬🤬
 
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Is it just me or is this trip boring af??! Lol. Same boring tit as at home. Jules attempting to be funny but just coming across as a controlling witch.
 
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duck off with the organic produce.

Only going to offer the baby when she can find organic food. 🙄

Just feed your kids properly, don't put your issues into them.
 
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100% support that Jules has issues around food. However, her parents seem to be the exact same. She has shown their pantry before and it was even more sparse than her own. So I think it's an inherited trait that she is now putting onto her girls.
 
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duck off with the organic produce.

Only going to offer the baby when she can find organic food. 🙄

Just feed your kids properly, don't put your issues into them.
Was coming here to say the same thing stick your organic produce where the sun don’t shine Jules.

100% support that Jules has issues around food. However, her parents seem to be the exact same. She has shown their pantry before and it was even more sparse than her own. So I think it's an inherited trait that she is now putting onto her girls.
They are and it would seem the Aunty who was critiquing Haddie when she was licking the dessert bowl is the same.
 
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