Amber gets into a fight with Johnny because he is late to her birthday party having spent all day in a meeting and getting disastrous financial news, she calls him fat, old, and washed up, and she serves him with divorce papers 3 days after the death of his mother, but Johnny is unempathetic? Johnny who has secretly visited children's hospitals for years and put up her freeloading friends in his penthouses?
Elaine trying to say that Johnny eating candy and doodling makes him unempathetic when Amber was shoveling chocolate, rolling her eyes, and laughing during her deposition