I don't think it's a love language at all or she'd be making them delicious meals to share together. Cooking him bigger meals two or three times more calorific than what she eats isn't love, it's to serve her ED - those of us who've been there can spot it a mile of
Spot on. I used to do the exact same when I was in the grips of an eating disorder. I wouldn’t dare touch all the calorific food I offered to make for someone else but cooking it and smelling it took away some of the cravings/want that I had for it. I was getting the pleasure preparing food without having to actually eat it.
Dianne is displaying the exact same behaviour as I did when I was a teenager. Making things she would love to eat but handing them straight over to someone else without even trying it. You could see her salivating preparing that iced coffee for Joe which is sad to watch.
I don’t think she truly cares about “eating healthily” for her health as she serves Joe the most unhealthiest, fattening shite all the time. Her latest vlog (and all the ones before) is a perfect example of that. Nothing she made was
healthy
She sits and watches him eat the food she makes and zooms in on food while Joe tries it but doesn’t try herself. It’s all about weight control.
They both look so unhealthy and withered. She’s barely eating anything and he’s only eating the shite she makes him.