Chocolate2008
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It is very sad & I think it’s a positive thing that public figures are sharing the experience.So sad. Felt so sorry for her. She’s heartbroken I’ve been there too.
I feel slightly torn, there are many people one of my friends included who are struggling to have one child. I think as part of the conversation around fertility issues it would be good to acknowledge the difference. Wanting a third child while you have two healthy children is very different to trying in vain for a first or even a second.
Just to be clear I think a miscarriage in any situation is awful. I hope it’s clear this post isn’t meant in any way to take away from that.
I do think in conversations around fertility it would be helpful to acknowledge that all situations are not the same. For example, when Jamie Oliver’s wife spoke about her issues struggling to have a sixth child. IMO it’s insensitive to put yourself out there as to that extent about fertility issues when you have five healthy children. Wider point than Jodie’s personal experience obviously.