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Can we keep the personal pregnancy stuff off this thread please. It’s annoying wading through 50 posts on who is pregnant at what age.
I’ve found this delightThose were the days when she used to photoshop her neck to giraffe like proportions! Does anyone remember the photo where she was standing in a high neck dress in front of a wonky door looking like she was a size 6 and 8 ft tall, 2ft of that was neck. Ahh I never thought I’d miss those days but I have to say she was less insufferable then than she is now she’s pregnant.
Just to give the perspective on this (and not at all in a confrontational way) as a person who unfortunately experienced a missed miscarriage. I have been really open with people with the miscarriage and actively try not to feed into any stigma and definitely feel like it’s not talked about because people just don’t know what to say if you’ve lost a pregnancy. I guess for me I would have found it very difficult to cope if I had gone ahead and bought things for baby before I found out. As utterly heartbreaking as I found the experience it would have (for me, not speaking on behalf of everyone) been more difficult to have had to come home from surgery for the MC to baby clothes ready or toys etc. So I guess it’s a protective thing. I had a family member who experienced MC and still birth and she always advised us female family members not to buy anything too soon and in the end I’m glad I took her advice but it’s very personal. In relation to telling people again in our experience we hadn’t told many people we were expecting because I was conscious of having to tell lots of people if something went wrong and would that make things worse. In the end we told all our friends about the MC even though they didn’t know I was pregnant to begin with and we got great support. In terms of the 20wk scan there can be (not always) a period of coming to terms with an unexpected diagnosis that for some women is like a grief for the child you thought/imagined you might have which again might be more difficult to come to terms with if you are surrounded with baby things but obviously not the case for everyone and I definitely would feel that having a child with a disability should be celebrated in the same way as a typically developing child&I say this as a person with family experience of this tooI have to say that while I think she is insufferable, I dont think she should feel the need to hold back her excitement before her 20 week scan. Even if things don't go the way she hoped, at least she will have celebrated and enjoyed her baby regardless. The baby doesn't become any less important if there is something wrong at the 20 weeks scan.
Maybe I am misunderstanding, but I suppose its even that whole dont tell anyone until ur past 12 weeks. I often wonder what is the reason, is there stil stigma and shame associated with miscarriage or not having a perfect pregnancy?
Seriously? I’m the same age as her, unvaccinated and pregnant and I am not “selfish entitled or socially irresponsible” Joanne maybe a dose but there is absolutely no need to comment on peoples choices in regards to taking the vaccine. In her defence, she is never really around many people and I’m sure she can limit her contacts for the remainder of her pregnancy.oh look Larby is in one of the least vaccinated age group with the rest of the selfish entitled, socially irresponsible peers my age
This is the prenatal vitamin she's been takingIt was a fairly big plum at 12 weeks too , but sure what would you expect.. Joanne grows massive veg in her plot anyway , she's an expert
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Love that she has sunglasses on inside but not a mask. Common sense in abundance.The bump must be hiding today
Remember the year she became obsessive about the amount of flight's she took and loved to say she was practically living out of a suitcase the travel was so hectic. She went to Dubai and Italy in the same year and thought she was Christopher Columbus, and I wouldn't mind, they were short hops for weddings they were attending. She is such a weirdo, such an obsessive personality and gets really smug and preachy about whatever her latest obsession is.Joanne come back to me when you backpack through South America, Aus, NZ and Asia while sleeping in hostels and even the odd hammock!! Marbs and Beefa don't count hun!
Baby shall be birthed under a full moon in Dunmanus BayAt home water birth for the win