Loooll apparently she’s shipping this Adam guy out to Barcelona to live with her

after what, 3 months of knowing him?! Her whole life is just so manufactured, it seems like she gets this idea of what she wants it to look like in her head and then just forces it to happen, whether it works or not. I think that’s why Alex was able to cheat on her for so long tbh. She was so obsessed with showing off this glamorous fake life to her followers that she failed to recognize any of the glaringly obvious red flags that he was giving out the entire time.
I hate to be an armchair diagnoser (and please no one take offense to this, I’m curious as to what others think) but does anyone else wonder if she is suffering from BPD or something similar? The way that she latches onto new people (usually men) and then puts them on a pedestal is defo a symptom of BPD, plus she also obviously has issues with substance abuse and eating too. Idk, she seems very emotionally unstable at times.
I wouldn't say BPD.
Not having a go at
@Deeznutslol but I think saying 'they seem like they BPD' or 'suspected' are banded about too much on social media (partly due to, often undiagnosed, people glamourising it).
Theres more to it than taking substances, partying, latching onto men or being a bit unstable.
BPD is a serious condition that is hellish for people who have it and they are not 'spicy' or 'wild'.
Truth is about 80% of people with BPD attempt suicide at some point (obviously some are successful).
People with BPD are insecure x1000 if she had BPD she would have literally gone into a rage at any woman talking to Alex and been accusing him of cheating way before she did.
A person with BPD wouldn't have the mentality to think 'they'll never cheat i'm too hot' because they're constantly suspicious.
A person with BPD ultimately has attachment issues they idolize and love bomb because they want someone to love them.
Their greatest fear is rejection so they are constantly suspicious and read into things too much and destroy relationships with their suspicions.
Someone with BPD would have been screaming at Alex and accusing him of an affair way before Sam found with all the red flags in her face.
Also she was with Alex for 2 years nearly people with untreated BPD are very destructive in relationships so they likely wouldn't have made it that far.
Especially when they were apart, someone with BPD would struggle with it.
As for eating issues..people with bpd often do too much of things to fill an emotional void inside them so it can be sex, drugs, shopping, eating, alcohol etc
I wouldn't say Sam goes overboard with any of them she isn't posting random tiktoks coked up, pissed, having huge shopping hauls or having a new man every week...they would be more BPD red flags.
Another thing people with BPD do if they feel they're gonna be rejected or are rejected they devalue and detach. If she had BPD she wouldn't be talking about Old Alex 18 months later. She would act like he didn't exist.