Old clips of the show keep coming up on my tik tok God he was essentially stalking lydia when she was with tom Kilby showing up at her house, showing up to her 21st birthday dinner party, showing up at different events i know it was partly for the show but she seemed so upset and had no peace from him. I know Debbie was telling him where she was sometimes but it was too much. She was upset either crying or shouting everytime. He would make Gemma cry too. Best thing lydia ever did was not have Loretta with him. I'm probably the biggest Arg hater going but looking back it and even at the time I knew it was wrong and didn't like any of it.