GrunkaLunka
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Fucking hell lads, I've made it to the current thread.... Oh shit, you're already up to page 49.
Morning - I feel I need to drop in on this. Apologies for the essay, but it's important to me.I don’t know the details of the KH case so won’t comment on that but the thing that stands out in my mind is the image of JM walking in or out of court with the aid of a stick. The same JM who lugs 18L of paint in a rucksack, who jumps around of her sofa in satin pj’s (the same sofa she rarely uses because she’s too busy working) and carries a 93kg (?) sideboard by herself.
Sorry M’lord but It just doesn’t add up.
This sums up why , like many people here, I went from a follower of JM to doubter .Poverty was the reason she became visible to a wider audience, and yes, at that point it was her USP. But much of her appeal was because she was one of us- a single mum, relying on benefits , financially struggling through circumstances that could befall anyone. Several years on, with numerous published books, brand deals , tv appearances, engagements to several financially stable women ,Groucho membership etc , for her still to be working poverty as her USP is insulting. She could easily have rebranded herself as an inspirational figure - someone who despite the hurdles of financial circumstance, in addition to being a non binary , trans , single parent- was now financially secure, and wanted to use her experiences and new position/privilege to help others. She could have published a book of basic cooking skills- something that many people her generation ( I’m a similar age) may have not been taught at school, with an emphasis on how these basic skills help make a limited budget go further . She could have done a book of child friendly meals, aimed at parents, who like her, were struggling to make food stretch to feed both children and parents. She could have used her profile to promote the importance of nutrition , and how it food can be used alongside medical intervention, to help manage the medical conditions that she reportedly lives with ,etc. Instead, she has made the decision to retain her living in poverty narrative , working ridiculous hours on a living wage,living alone in “shitty” rented accommodation, with no real support or childcare . Like I’ve said here before, when I first started following JM , I was in a similar situation. I still struggle financially at times, but I have a stable home , my kids are always fed without me needing to sell their favourite toys, I work around the limited childcare ( ie school hours, breakfast/homework club, kindness of my children’s friends parents) available to me. I might not have a smeg fridge, expensive knives,nor expensive perfumes or coats. My last weekend trip away might have been to a caravan park in Hastings with the kids, rather than a cheeky trip to wherever it was that JM went to and had to check in/leave ( I forget which ) the expensive knife. A (rare ) meal out might be at my local pub for the earlybird special rather than at the Groucho shouting at Jude Law to sit down so I can see the results for Redcar . I might not be rich or famous, i might not have the blue tick which deems me worthy of a response. But if I was given the choice between my current lifestyle and JM’s , would I still choose mine? Yes, absolutely!She’s baffling. I can understand the reasoning for some of the lies, like those relating to her finances - poverty is her USP, the lies are still wrong but I get it.
this is the first thread here that I have actively engaged in, and it’s precisely because of the inbetween rattle . Jack is a chef/cook/food blogger/influencer, a political activist/potential MP, a parent, a pet owner, someone who has a experienced relationship breakdowns. Most, if not all, of the slight tangents we have taken have had a starting point in something Jack has said or done. We have been assigned membership to a cabal Of Hausfrauen by her devoted fanbase .there is a shared interest in food/cats/Cookbooks/a certain chefs forearms/seeds/general Hausfaus activities between us all.its like we are our own little micro community within the chat about JM. We care for, and look out for each other. We share our knowledge. We open up to one another. We challenge each other when needed and take the opportunity to challenge and expand our own knowledge and points of view. We are one big maverick, chaotic,weird little brained online family. Which will be very handy post trial when ms 100% legal success record has taken all our assets and we are forced to share one rented shitty bungalow ,cooking our one daily meal of rinsed beans and grated corned beef on a camping stove that is set up in the bathroom, next to the fridgeReally? I like the threads here - they respond to JM when they need to, which is most of the time, and rattle on nicely in between.
Deffo not Little Miss Sunshiney Perfect... more like snarky bint .I think you can be someone who has had shit thrown at you as well as a narcissistic cunt at the same time. Yes, some people have been vile to her but she isn't Little Miss Sunshiney Perfect by any means. She's a Venn Diagram all by herself.
*only 0.1% of her life is lived in public*
There's a bit of background to this one. That's the Holly who tackled Jack a few days ago about her shitty performative video and her 'white as mayonnaise' comment. Holly is repeating Jack's pledge back to her, lest she has forgotten. This obviously hit a nerve. Holly has the measure of her.Sorry but what the fuck is she on about? The person literally just said they were looking forward to the content from black creators, they told her to take care. There wasn’t a hint of passive aggression in that Tweet unless you’re paranoid as hell and take offence to literally everything. Her defensive reply isn’t even a reply? It reads like a reply to a completely different message
Yeah but she's a MH advoctae when it suits, then is snarky with no reasonAnd this is why just as I'm starting to actually feel bad for and hope that mentally she isn't in a really shitty place, I never stay there feeling bad for long because she is such an absolute asshole to her followers who are asking a perfectly legitimate question. She doesn't know what sort of a day that person is having, her being so snarky could really make someone feel bad, so for someone who likes to pose as a MH advocate when it suits her, it really boils my piss to see her acting like that to people.
I used to. Then I met him IRL. He is quite short. Nothing wrong with short blokes but I just imagined him towering over me.
When I say 'met him' I mean I saw him in a pub once when out on a (Slightly boozy) PTA lunchtime meeting. We all just stared at him drooling.....
He seemed lovely as he politely smiled at what could only be described as a drunken group of perimenopausal mums as he left the pub.
Edit to say that even though I've gone off him a bit, I still TOTALLY would though....