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Considering she’s expressed previously that a child is their biggest wish, I often wonder why they haven’t gone for maybe adoption or fostering. They could help kids / a child who had no-one to have a great life. I get it’s not for everyone but still...
 
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Considering she’s expressed previously that a child is their biggest wish, I often wonder why they haven’t gone for maybe adoption or fostering. They could help kids / a child who had no-one to have a great life. I get it’s not for everyone but still...
Don’t quote me as I don’t know much about it, but isn’t there certain criteria - suitable home, healthy lifestyle, time available, etc. I don’t know, but would their BMI be a factor in them not being able to adopt? I guess they would be looking for the healthiest, most caring and suitable parents to adopt.

also a note that in my opinion you can be a great parent at any size, just not sure how it might affect them based on the ‘rules’
 
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Don’t quote me as I don’t know much about it, but isn’t there certain criteria - suitable home, healthy lifestyle, time available, etc. I don’t know, but would their BMI be a factor in them not being able to adopt? I guess they would be looking for the healthiest, most caring and suitable parents to adopt.

also a note that in my opinion you can be a great parent at any size, just not sure how it might affect them based on the ‘rules’
And her mum living with them would be a big factor too. I think everyone in the household would have to go through all of the adoption process and the background checks if they would be living with the adopted child.
 
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Wow she has gained a lot.
In regards to the infertility - I have secondary infertility and tried for a second 11 years ago and we came to accept it wasn’t going to happen about 7 years ago. So she may come to terms with it and is okay about it. But when she says trolling I never saw anyone troll her even on GG. The thing that was said that if she really wanted to give it the best shot they would both concentrate on losing weight.
Agree she has never been trolled for her infertility. Only thing I have read that anyone has said regarding her infertility was for her n chris to loose weight as she is so desperate to have a child. I think people were trying to genuinely help advise her to loose weight and she took it negatively not realising it will actually benefit her. I think she has convinced herself that she is not morbidly obese. Which she actually is. She thinks by making herself look slim in pics and hunching over she actually is slim. In reality the only person she is cheating is herself and no one else.
 
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She does look uncomfortably big. My BMI has gone up to 26.5 during lockdown and I am finding certain pilates moves much harder to do than pre lockdown. If you’re that big you must struggle to even tie your shoes?! Sorry not sorry, I just don’t get it.
 
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Empathy at its finest!! Lockdown has been tough for all of us and we’ve all had different ways of coping. Some of us are clinically recognised as emotional eaters - maybe that’s Emma’s coping mechanism too.
 
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IIRC a couple of years ago she had a horrible comment left on her IG by a blank account saying something like it’s a good thing she can’t have children or something, it was really nasty and she was (rightly so) very upset, I think it was then she decided to no longer be open about it.

I might not like some things she does, but I would never wish infertility on anyone. As for her weight, well that’s her own business but I just wish she would stop trying to appear slimmer in her photos by the weird poses. She’s meant to be BoPo, she should just own it 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
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Hair update video ... she’s been reading here !!
No Em your hair isn’t thick... it’s super thin ! It was thick and healthy when you were brunette ! Now it looks like two different haircuts.
 
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Those clips in the car really show how big they both are. They both hang over the car seats to the point where I don’t understand how Chris changes gear.

Surely they are really uncomfortable
 
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Hair update video ... she’s been reading here !!
No Em your hair isn’t thick... it’s super thin ! It was thick and healthy when you were brunette ! Now it looks like two different haircuts.
I am confused by her hair? its so thin and 2 different colours?
 
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Empathy at its finest!! Lockdown has been tough for all of us and we’ve all had different ways of coping. Some of us are clinically recognised as emotional eaters - maybe that’s Emma’s coping mechanism too.
I agree to a point however I am an emotional eater BUT I also value my independence and mobility
 
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I agree to a point however I am an emotional eater BUT I also value my independence and mobility
Also it’s still a choice. I’m an emotional eater too, but I’m aware when I’m doing it that I’m making that choice, therefore when I gain weight there’s only me to blame. There has to be a point where you make a choice - move more, lose weight and be more active, mobile, independent and healthy, or don’t.
 
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I’ve looked into insomnia as I suffer occasionally. It is linked to higher BMI and can lead to high blood pressure and insulin resistance causing type 2 Diabetes. Enough to scare me into trying to lose a bit of weight. Perhaps Em could watch some of her shopping vlogs to help get her to sleep 😴
 
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I was watching her hair update video and was confused when she kept saying she has really thick hair. I myself have fine hair and hers is just like mine, although I use volumising products so it looks full of body, hers just hangs there looking limp.

She needs several inches cut off. It looks so odd with the 2 dark sections hanging at each side. Think she's trying to do a Mikhila and grow it as long as possible despite the fact it looks bad.
 
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I think she is woe is me, anything for attention, cannot sleep lets film it and upload it to YouTube, commenters ohh and ahh over her, please stop filming yourself and seriously make an appointment for you to see/speak to your GP, your health must come first, not how many views you get on Youtube or instagram or how many ads you can fit into your video.

As for her hair, no matter what she has done to it, it always ends up looking the same and no your hair isn’t thick, I hate to say this but youpenga has lovely thick glossy hair.
 
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I cannot stand her hair, I’ve gone through two and a bit years of growing my bleached hair back out to my natural very dark brown. It’s very shallow but I’ve really struggled at times because
I’ve felt so so weird with half and half hair but she’s actually paid for hers!!!
 
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