My rule of thumb is I have one good friend, and everyone else are work colleagues and I choose if I go out with them or not, sometimes I do and sometimes depending what group it is I don’t I don’t have time for there tit or drama and quite honestly don’t give a fat rat arse, plus I am 50 don’t have children been married 18 years and quite happy to go out with my husband, over the years I have found friends to be fake, liars, and just to darn needy, in my opinion x