I am in agony with the heartburn here girls, but this thread has actually kept me sane on my maternity leave. Well this & decorating our nursery. They've both utterly consumed me this past few weeks so thanks guys n gals. I never really got into Tattle as some of the threads on other celebs would actually sicken you the things that get said on them. But this little Den of Evil is genuinely the nicest bunch of folks in the Tattlesphere. How anyone could accuse anyone here of being bullies or unnecessarily cruel is beyond me. And Alice, if indeed you do read here. I was married at 27 , 3 miscarriages by 31. . And at 32 discovered my husband had been having an affair with the practise nurse in his clinic. Hes a GP. And to add insult to injury, she was knocked up.Hence why he had to come clean. So I went from having a relatively privileged life, doctors wife and all that jazz. To becoming a broken shell of a woman, I was bitter as hell yes, I may even have keyed his precious 60,000 euro car from top to bottom. It wasn't my finest moment but it felt good at the time let me tell you! He bought me out of our home and moved his pregnant girlfriend in so i bought a small flat & after months of laying around being unable to eat, sleep, think, interact with people. I had 1 really good friend & the BEST sister barge into my place and tell me in no uncertain terms how pathetic I was being, wasting my life away in misery. They literally stayed with me for a month. Shared a bed together in the small spare room. And slowly, very slowly, they helped bring me back to life. Babysteps. I took up running. Then martial arts. Then felt ready to go back to work. Then did a post grad to specialise in occupational health. Got a great job. Met amazing new friends in the gym and the workplace. I'm almost 37 now & 8 months pregnant with the love of my life in our new house that we just bought this year. My divorce isnt finalised yet but I can't tell you how happy I'll be when it is. . Point is, you can turn all of this shit around. If I could, anyone could. Just take babysteps for now. Stay offline. Spend time with your friends & family back home. You will get there! I am truly rooting for you!