Alice, if you don’t want to get your life in order for the sake of your children, then at least do it for yourself. It’s beyond unlikely that some white knight will appear out of thin air, deposit a few hundred thousand in your bank account and take care of your admin stuff while pouring you another Rosé. That’s not how life works, luv. Not even for Alice Evans, no matter how much weight you lose.
Exactly. Look at all the true A listers who have worked their a$$es off to maintain career and financial security for themselves - some with children/some without and varying degrees of love/relationship success:
1) Jennifer Aniston : married twice, divorced- publicly “shamed” by the Pitt/Jolie relationship (cheating or not the tabloids made it sensational), managed to remain friendly with both exes eventually and maintaining a healthy lifestyle and circle of friends
2)Angelina Jolie: enough discussed here prior - definite drama divorce with kids and behavior of BP when drinking certainly not ideal. But even they now appear to be trying to work quietly on finances- Angelina working despite many children.
3) Sandra Bullock: Tragic what she has been through with passage of her partner but kept it quiet for 3 years while working and raising kids. And her prior marriage to Jesse James was a sh&t show as she was adopting but she kept her head up and moved on
4) Reese Witherspoon: two divorces and dui but works , acts, has clothing line and raises kids.
5) Lisa Bonet: divorcing Jason Mamoa but is keeping it less public for sake of kids and likely ensuring his career stays strong for sake of kids. She works but not a lot but probably managed her TV money.
6) Zoe Saldana : twin boys and sexy husband who isn’t prime breadwinner. Works and raises family with him.
7) Jennifer Gardner: divorced but raising kids together with ex and living happily
I’m sure there are better examples of actresses in AE range (haven’t acted in a while but making a living ) - who am I kidding? I’m not sure any former z list actress could be as stubbornly delusional as AE! Even if she hadn’t had children , surely she should have always tried to maintain a semblance of control of her finances etc! Definitely stuck in a 13 year old mindset about everything!