Nadia Vulvokov
Chatty Member
Long time lurker on this thread, have followed Alice's antics since it was reported in the DM she had been given a restraining order. Have loosely followed Ioan since watching Liar too. Dipped in and out of this thread as found it a bit too close to home at times, as I've been the victim of similar DV over a period of a few years and also had to seek a DVRO. Thankfully, now my life is peaceful. In regards to her not showing up to court, My ex husband was exactly the same. It's arrogance on a whole other level and typical in people with narcissistic personality disorder. Unfortunately, as my ex learnt the hard way, this will all come back to haunt her. I feel so anxious for her daughters. My own daughter who is now 16 has cut ties with her abusive father. She was 13 (Ella's age) when she made the decision to remove herself from his chaotic life, with the support of a court social worker and a fantastic childrens court advocate. This is how I see things going for Alice. Her behaviour will almost certainly create a strained or estranged relationship with her girls as they get older. It's been difficult to follow this thread at times but also astonishing to see this all unfold. I just wish her girls well over anything else. They are the innocent ones in this situation and I hope they have a safe haven in the very near future. I'll go back to my lurking now and hope if that if Alice is given some kind of punishment it involves rehabilitation, or psychological treatment. The seriousness of her situation is clearly not sinking in and she seems to be detached from reality. She needs help ASAP.