Inthefrow #27 Byfrow seems inspired byRhode

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I wonder if Alex is truly happy with just it being the 2 of them, he just seems to me very unfulfilled. I can imagine him being someone who would want a family but is stuck with her.
when they just moved in their current house they did Q&A and he literally said "I'm ready to have kids yesterday" but that he is waiting for Victoria to be ready..
 
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And that’s such a toxic dynamic for a marriage. I think there’s certain fundamentals you need to be aligned on when you are in a long term relationship and children/whether you want them, is absolutely that.

If you aren’t in agreement or just hoping someone changes their mind it’s an absolute car crash waiting to happen.
 
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And that’s such a toxic dynamic for a marriage. I think there’s certain fundamentals you need to be aligned on when you are in a long term relationship and children/whether you want them, is absolutely that.

If you aren’t in agreement or just hoping someone changes their mind it’s an absolute car crash waiting to happen.
The grifter got grifted lol
 
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I wonder if Alex is truly happy with just it being the 2 of them, he just seems to me very unfulfilled. I can imagine him being someone who would want a family but is stuck with her.
You saying this ... wait for it ... we're now going to get the 87th vlog lecture on why Vic does not want children. :rolleyes:

Vic, we don't care.
 
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Also, talk to your husband. A little bit of solo travel is all good but pretty soon he's gonna have all these experiences that he can't share with you. If it was me I would feel bored and stifled by someone who barely leaves their attic.
 
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I'd highly recommend reading Wide Sargasso Sea which is kind of a novelized prequel to Jane Eyre about the wife in the attic!

Vic couldn't go to Vietnam! She had a 6-day diary to launch! Also, whenever they do travel together, they never actually do anything. They go to a beach and she wears inappropriate footwear, films herself getting ready, and Alex takes her picture. Kudos to him for getting out of her shadow to explore and do the things he wants to do. Plus, she'd probably starve because the food is cooked in seed oils and restaurants would laugh at her for asking if they sell veggie pulp muffins.
Exactly. She doesn’t leave hotel rooms and eats nothing but avocado toast no matter where in the world she is. She doesn’t believe in checking the weather so is always either over or underdressed. And like she’s going to walk around the non luxury parts of Vietnam. In full glam, taking obnoxious selfies and pics of the food she won’t eat. Please. I’ve traveled to some gnarly parts of the world, and you have to be respectful and at least attempt to blend in if you want to experience the actual culture. I’d love to see Vic attempt to walk around some of the rough parts of New Delhi and stay in a 2 star hotel where no luxury car takes you anywhere; you get on the back of a tuk tuk motorcycle, or even get out and *gasp* walk if you want to experience the spice market. The poverty in cities like that, in countries where the caste system still very much exists, is awful. It’s hard to see. I went for a work trip years ago and my father came to meet me because he always wanted to see India and the Taj Mahal. It is even more incredible in person, but it’s not for the faint of heart. You have super luxurious tourist attractions literally next to alleys where people will cling to you out of sheer desperation. My dad would take out money every day just to give to people begging because the USD is worth so much there. We have it so good; people literally sleep in the streets with women and children starving and flies all around them. It’s horrific. Then you turn down another street and it’s like Hollywood mansions. The dichotomy is disturbing. You do what you can. Point being, I’m sure Alex is just fine with a bed and running water. He’s more interested in exploring and the experience, as one who travels should be. Why go somewhere far away to stay in the same hotel you could find in any country? And forget about good bathroom lighting or fancy dinners.

To be clear, these countries have plenty of luxury areas and hotels. But if you just stay in them, you’re not experiencing the actual culture. You have to get comfortable with being uncomfortable and just go with it. You should learn basic phrases in that language. And leave all your fancy tit behind. Try and wear what the locals do, especially when visiting religious places. Vic wouldn’t last a day.
 
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I have to laugh when she, in classic influencer fashion, intends to solve her lack of walking by buying a treadmill or buying a vibration plate. Maybe just step out your door and have a walk around the neighbourhood. Drive your expensive car to your local trail and have a hike where you'll work your leg muscles going up and down an incline. My god these people are so incapable of solving problems without having to promote constant consumption. Then they pretend to be eco-friendly with their "sustainable" notebooks as the answer to their monied brainrot.
 
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I have to laugh when she, in classic influencer fashion, intends to solve her lack of walking by buying a treadmill or buying a vibration plate. Maybe just step out your door and have a walk around the neighbourhood. Drive your expensive car to your local trail and have a hike where you'll work your leg muscles going up and down an incline. My god these people are so incapable of solving problems without having to promote constant consumption. Then they pretend to be eco-friendly with their "sustainable" notebooks as the answer to their monied brainrot.
Doesn't she already have a treadmill?
 
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So, he is in Vietnam and he sends her loads of pics of the food and the meals he has been eating. He must know she has ‘problems’ with food and eating so why do that…..there are loads of stunning , (and moving!) things to photograph there! Is he being passive aggressive doing this or is she just being food obsessive? Mebbe he sent loads of pics but the food/meals pics were all she could focus on. Tragic either way.
 
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So, he is in Vietnam and he sends her loads of pics of the food and the meals he has been eating. He must know she has ‘problems’ with food and eating so why do that…..there are loads of stunning , (and moving!) things to photograph there! Is he being passive aggressive doing this or is she just being food obsessive? Mebbe he sent loads of pics but the food/meals pics were all she could focus on. Tragic either way.
I'm glad he's off doing something he enjoys. I must admit though that I do find a lot of his street photography rather uncomfortable when it comes to people and locals. People in other countries aren't exhibits or attractions and informed consent is important in my view when you are making someone the subject of your photo and when you are posting it on the internet, especially when they are minors.
 
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I have to laugh when she, in classic influencer fashion, intends to solve her lack of walking by buying a treadmill or buying a vibration plate. Maybe just step out your door and have a walk around the neighbourhood. Drive your expensive car to your local trail and have a hike where you'll work your leg muscles going up and down an incline. My god these people are so incapable of solving problems without having to promote constant consumption. Then they pretend to be eco-friendly with their "sustainable" notebooks as the answer to their monied brainrot.
This reminds me of a coworker who has a “grounding plate”… to help her feel grounded with the earth

Uh, going outside is free and won’t end up in a landfill 🤷‍♀️
 
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I will admit I have a treadmill at home but that's mostly because I have a full time job and generally when I have time for a walk, it's pissing down with rain or bloody cold. She has the luxury of being able to go out at any time and make the most of the nice weather.

Plus my joint issues mean walking is the only exercise that won't break me and therefore a gym membership is useless.
 
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I’m an avarage makeup content consumer and I could name 10 different products/colours/textures/finishes that are missing from the market right now that she could launch instead of coffee cups and notebooks but she just slaps her name on the most common and basic shades and hopes for people to buy it… I’m not gonna hand feed her these ideas but she could easily check any makeup artist’s videos and see what people are asking for and take a risk and maybe people would actually talk and recommend her products to others.
 
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I’m an avarage makeup content consumer and I could name 10 different products/colours/textures/finishes that are missing from the market right now that she could launch instead of coffee cups and notebooks but she just slaps her name on the most common and basic shades and hopes for people to buy it… I’m not gonna hand feed her these ideas but she could easily check any makeup artist’s videos and see what people are asking for and take a risk and maybe people would actually talk and recommend her products to others.
For example, not everyone wants to/wears nude lip products! I’m a bold red girl and it’s really hard to find good quality red shades that apply evenly and stay put. Or really good metallic shades that don’t leave you with sparkles all over your face. Not everyone wants to look like Hailey Bieber or is a fan of the “clean girl” aesthetic.

Don’t even get me started on Vic’s “manifestation” crap. Girl, what you’re describing is simple goal setting and follow through. Tom Brady didn’t “manifest” his success; he worked his ass off to become the best he could be and took feedback from people who knew more than him.
 
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Don’t even get me started on Vic’s “manifestation” crap. Girl, what you’re describing is simple goal setting and follow through. Tom Brady didn’t “manifest” his success; he worked his ass off to become the best he could be and took feedback from people who knew more than him.
Never heard of him but this manifesting thing influencers are obsessed with is ridiculous. It's basically wishing really hard. Unbelievable that people are selling this idea 🤣
 
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Never heard of him but this manifesting thing influencers are obsessed with is ridiculous. It's basically wishing really hard. Unbelievable that people are selling this idea 🤣
He’s a very famous American football quarterback who many consider to be the GOAT. And yeah Vic is hardly the only one: Lydia and Josie are two that also love to hard sell it. Which just made me remember…didn’t Lydia put out a journal to go with that silly book on seasons she “wrote”?
 
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He’s a very famous American football quarterback who many consider to be the GOAT. And yeah Vic is hardly the only one: Lydia and Josie are two that also love to hard sell it. Which just made me remember…didn’t Lydia put out a journal to go with that silly book on seasons she “wrote”?
Ah ok, I'm from the UK so not familiar with American football. The manifesting thing is everywhere. Even smaller influencers mention it - 'I manifested this holiday' ok you mean you researched and booked it? FFS.
 
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Manifesting is just an influencers way of being able to say what they want or hope to achieve, in the hopes that brands will give it to them free.

Us normal people set a goal and work out ass off to achieve that goal. Most influencers want things without the hard work.
 
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Does anyone else think her "my husband is so talented" bs is so condescending? It feels like she's throwing him a bone while pretending to be the doting, supportive wife as her husband does his little hobby photography.

She's definitely overcompensating, that's very obvious.
 
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Wow so it's real lol.. I present you a video from a supportive moron who buys her stuff ( I don't know this creator, I just love watching luxury hauls and was suggested that video today )

She showcased the pencils and the "cup" out from the delivery box. I'm very happy I finally got to see a real and clear footage of her cash grab products :LOL:

Skip to 7:23 till 9:18


 
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