I wonder if she’d feel like her kids give her as much “purpose” if she couldn’t exploit all their moments for social media fame
Not a maternal bone in her body at least not in the last two years from what I’ve seen she has no genuine interest in those kids , spends very little time with them and can’t wait to get away from them fast enough. The only time she shows interest in the kids is when she uses them for content because she’s addicted with exploiting them and constantly craves validation of people commenting “you’re such a good mum” when me personally I don’t think she’s a good mum I think she’s very selfish , immature and puts those kids lives in danger.
I’m not saying a parent needs to be perfect but she doesn’t protect those kids and uses them for her own benefit so I’ll never see her as a good mum and Ben happily goes along with exploiting the kids too so he’s wrong for that too. I notice that anyone who constantly has to post about happy they are with their life and how they love being a mum it comes across fake and they usually are miserable or bitter about the fact they are a parent and have the responsibility of taking care of their kids when it’s not something they enjoy. When you compare it to other parents who firstly don’t exploit their kids but secondly they don’t constantly try to paint this perfect happy image of their life trying to convince everyone they’re so happy cause you can just tell they’re living in the moment and although parenting isn’t always easy you can still see these parents have genuine happiness being a parent unlike Indy who seems like she’d rather not have the responsibility.
Indy is a good example of that because she clearly wants to be away from her kids more than she wants to be with them. She loves having the influencer lifestyle of being able to go to all these parties , nights out , holidays and events without having to worry about taking care of children and everytime she gets back home you can tell she can’t wait to leave again because in my opinion she loves being an influencer more than she being a mum. I’ve called out influencer dads for doing the same thing of being absent and not helping with their kids etc so this isn’t just something I’m saying about a woman just to make that clear I’d call out any influencer parents for this. I’m not saying a parent shouldn’t ever get a break or ever get help because of course that’s a personal choice whatever works for you and nothing wrong with asking for help but I think Indy can be lazy and selfish sometimes.