So when he does it, its usually when we are saying goodbye. So for example we are standing in a hallway or utility room about to leave. So everyone is standing round saying their goodbyes or my parnter is going to the car loading up babies things. He does it really slyly. He will always expect a hug and a kiss goodbye and as he does it, he then lowers his arm down so its like he's placing his around my waist and then it lingers on my bum. So no, I don't think anyone sees.
He's a very quiet man very clever and is a church warden. He's very quietly spoken and my partner adores him. So he's not the sort of character I could sort of make a joke about it and banter it off forcefully. My plan is to move his hand away next time and say I don't like that. But do it calmly and firmly. He's quite a dominant partner with his wife. She is foreign and I get the impression she's very subservient and many a time iv felt uncomfortable with things he's said around her or she's told me he's said. If my partner had the same attitude I would run a mile. Thankfully he's nothing like him.
It does leave me questioning his character though. If he can do that, what else does he deem acceptable? Will my son be safe around him? It's making me very uneasy and uncomfortable the more I stop and think about it all.
He's a very quiet man very clever and is a church warden. He's very quietly spoken and my partner adores him. So he's not the sort of character I could sort of make a joke about it and banter it off forcefully. My plan is to move his hand away next time and say I don't like that. But do it calmly and firmly. He's quite a dominant partner with his wife. She is foreign and I get the impression she's very subservient and many a time iv felt uncomfortable with things he's said around her or she's told me he's said. If my partner had the same attitude I would run a mile. Thankfully he's nothing like him.
It does leave me questioning his character though. If he can do that, what else does he deem acceptable? Will my son be safe around him? It's making me very uneasy and uncomfortable the more I stop and think about it all.