Where do I even start.
30, married, mother of two. One child being profoundly/severely disabled.
Diagnosed with Anxiety.
Over the course of well, a year really my health is steadily becoming quite tit.
-I’ve had bloods done; all ‘normal’-.
Headaches that turn into migraines, temp fluctuation 38.2 mostly, and overwhelming fatigue and aches is dominating my everyday life now, my husband works and I care for our disabled child; it’s got to the point that I can barely do this.. I can barely look after myself.
A few times I’ve asked him to come home from work, with no other support and me being unable to offer adequate care I really have no choice but often he ignores me, which leaves me in a crying crumpled mess. He thinks my ailments are in my head, belittles my pain and says ‘I’m always ill’. He really truly doesn’t believe me and I’m certain he thinks is psychosomatic or me being lazy. I’m at my wits end with it. I am a shadow of who I used to be, I barely leave the house now as I just don’t have it in me. I feel alone, I have doctors finding no cause to my problems and my only friend/husband in the world who thinks it’s a lie, when I’ve tried to speak to him about this he says I’m being dramatic or a drama queen about it. I just feel so alone. So tired.
Honestly, am I being dramatic as he states or what? Because I don’t know anymore if this is all in my head or he is being unreasonable
30, married, mother of two. One child being profoundly/severely disabled.
Diagnosed with Anxiety.
Over the course of well, a year really my health is steadily becoming quite tit.
-I’ve had bloods done; all ‘normal’-.
Headaches that turn into migraines, temp fluctuation 38.2 mostly, and overwhelming fatigue and aches is dominating my everyday life now, my husband works and I care for our disabled child; it’s got to the point that I can barely do this.. I can barely look after myself.
A few times I’ve asked him to come home from work, with no other support and me being unable to offer adequate care I really have no choice but often he ignores me, which leaves me in a crying crumpled mess. He thinks my ailments are in my head, belittles my pain and says ‘I’m always ill’. He really truly doesn’t believe me and I’m certain he thinks is psychosomatic or me being lazy. I’m at my wits end with it. I am a shadow of who I used to be, I barely leave the house now as I just don’t have it in me. I feel alone, I have doctors finding no cause to my problems and my only friend/husband in the world who thinks it’s a lie, when I’ve tried to speak to him about this he says I’m being dramatic or a drama queen about it. I just feel so alone. So tired.
Honestly, am I being dramatic as he states or what? Because I don’t know anymore if this is all in my head or he is being unreasonable