I have had lots of problems over the years with my brother in law.
He really thinks the World revolves around him and I could be here all day with examples of his behaviour.
Brother in law is the eldest of three, my husband in the middle.
His partner literally worships the ground he walks on (I really don't know how someone could love him more than he loves himself.)
I have had virtually no contact with them during lockdown. They have been very resentful that I had been furloughed from my husbands company. Husband has his own business which although he has tried to keep going it has been incredibly hard and I really don't know if we can survive this.
Not only has brother in law not really supported us but he has actually gone out of his way to be nasty.
Next week is a significant birthday and thank the lord with the new 6 situation I don't have to meet up with them or parents in law ( who have been equally non supportive and very demanding of husbands time)
But I know they will get me a present and quite frankly I want to tell the to stick it. But I know my husband will get upset because he likes to keep the peace. So what should I do? I dont want a big falling out with them but just don't want to be around them or accept anything from them. Advice would be welcome please
He really thinks the World revolves around him and I could be here all day with examples of his behaviour.
Brother in law is the eldest of three, my husband in the middle.
His partner literally worships the ground he walks on (I really don't know how someone could love him more than he loves himself.)
I have had virtually no contact with them during lockdown. They have been very resentful that I had been furloughed from my husbands company. Husband has his own business which although he has tried to keep going it has been incredibly hard and I really don't know if we can survive this.
Not only has brother in law not really supported us but he has actually gone out of his way to be nasty.
Next week is a significant birthday and thank the lord with the new 6 situation I don't have to meet up with them or parents in law ( who have been equally non supportive and very demanding of husbands time)
But I know they will get me a present and quite frankly I want to tell the to stick it. But I know my husband will get upset because he likes to keep the peace. So what should I do? I dont want a big falling out with them but just don't want to be around them or accept anything from them. Advice would be welcome please