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So the money does still exist!!! She's been reading here hasn't she, and realised that it's not all been forgotten!
 
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Definitely seems like it.

The whole thing was very weird.

Firstly dashing into help this woman and asking for donations.

Then after a bit, doing a complete U turn and announcing that you shouldn’t check in on friends or ask after their mental health because it can be burdensome.

If I was her ex I would be so embarrassed with the constant airing of issues in public, especially the semi frequent references to him being abusive.
 
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Only 6 comments on that last post about the money though, suggests more people than us just aren't sure about that whole business.
 
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She commented on a Cup of Jo post last week and because I follow her it went to the top of the comments for me. It looks like there is a custody battle, and he hasn’t just fallen into line.
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Would still like to know who set up that charity as it seems to be THE ONE that ALL the instahuns like MOD, Not So Smug Now... always choose to donate to...Also do we know how much exactly was raised for "Claire"?
They are called little village and are a baby bank for parents for kids under 5. So give things like clothing, wipes and toys. We have a collection point in my parents area and I’ve also recommended them before so do that they are real.

Think it might have been closer to £2000. Can’t remember off the top of my head but she had that giving page.

It’s been around three years since she moved out but they’re not divorced?
 
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She is just ricocheting from one thing to another isn't she! She was so unbelievably enthusiastic about the apple butter, soup making enterprise and now, just months later and after renting a kitchen, it's suddenly all...over...and on to the next job.

I have said this before but I'm genuinely a bit worried about her, this seems like fairly manic behaviour, the ups and downs and abandoned plans. The America move seems to be a fantasy, surely it's not going to happen if the ex isn't happy. She even looks different, very drawn and tired. I do hope she is ok.
 
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I agree, maybe she has an undiagnosed mental health issue like bipolar that creates those highs with the fantasy edge (or maybe she is diagnosed for all we know!)
She seems to be admitting that her life and particularly work life has been very flighty and erratic.
 
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She put in comments on another post hinting that her ex isn’t in agreement with her plan to move away with the kids.

I can’t see how she will manage it. Surely he will put a stop to it.
 
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I assume the lack of posts and content from HM on IG recently is because she is fully embroiled in an international custody battle, which she might have lost? She is noticeably quiet.
 
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I assume the lack of posts and content from HM on IG recently is because she is fully embroiled in an international custody battle, which she might have lost? She is noticeably quiet.
I think it it because of the new job she mentioned a few weeks (months?) ago... Her silence is probably only to make a point that her apple butter and influencer careers are way behind her (until she gets bored of that job or that they realise how annoying she is and that new exciting job ends...) Pretending she is soooooo busy with her exciting job that she can no longer post on Instagram...She is also traveling (did one story from Sweden where she was for work a little while ago...) Also she gone quiet after raising cash for her so called friend who then disappeared...still convinced she has/is using some of the money/or all of it for herself...🤢🤡🤢
 
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The narcissistic abuse explanation on her stories - THE most blatant pot shot at the EX.

Thinking your Ex is a narcissist, or putting references to it on your socials is every third breakup these days. It also screams “I didn’t get my way and I am a sore loser”.
 
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He's probably a narcissist because he doesn't want to 'allow' her to move half way across the world with their kids!
 
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She must be moving soon if she’s flogging off everything that isn’t nailed down.
 
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The sales page being private is an interesting move, I guess so she can limit what her ex or people close to him can see. I would hazard a further guess that potentially some of what she’s selling she didn’t pay for.
 
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It's random stuff so far like her bike trailer, some shoes, waffle maker, outside chair, two wardrobes (ikea and cox and cox), bookcase, bureau, indoor baskets, small freezer. I think the cox and cox wardrobe was the most expensive (£825, someone bought it already for £200).
 
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