How far is too far for a relationship?

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I don’t think your being selfish at all. I’ve gone from a 40 minute to 1h30 commute because it gave us the perfect house. Is it really worth the cost, upheaval for 1 hour? Have you discussed this with him?
 
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I think he's the one being selfish! An hour commute is nothing, I used to regularly comment 2 hours on London public transport to get to work and back. If he's in the comfort of his own car he's being a bit precious. You're finally happy, why ruin all that for an hour commute.
 
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My husband commutes an hour each way for work daily.

One of my good friends husband is RAF, in the 7 years I've known her they have moved 4 times but in those years she's had 2 prem babies and cancer and this was with the RAF keeping them local! They have now brought a house so she and the kids have somewhere permanent and her hubby travels as and when required.

Your not being unreasonable at all
 
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