Hope for Harley

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I can imagine more of this would make sense if they weren't so damn illiterate 🫠
 
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Well, that didn’t take long. Wonder who made Bonnie take her video down. Hard to keep feeding that hero complex when it relies on belittling others to make yourself look good.
 
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Well, that didn’t take long. Wonder who made Bonnie take her video down. Hard to keep feeding that hero complex when it relies on belittling others to make yourself look good.
What was the video?
 
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What was the video?
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I just tried to see if anyone else posted it so I could be accurate but I can’t find it.
She was basically saying unless you made a massive donation (she specified a minimum amount) you don’t deserve an update whilst laughing and grinning. People called her out and she doubled down and laughed at making people angry.
other comments from her were mocking people who she assumed had donated from their universal credit. Someone will have screen recorded it somewhere.
What was the video?
just tried to see if anyone else posted it so I could be accurate but I can’t find it.
She was basically saying unless you made a massive donation (she specified a minimum amount) you don’t deserve an update whilst laughing and grinning. People called her out and she doubled down and laughed at making people angry.
other comments from her were mocking people who she assumed had donated from their universal credit. Someone will have screen recorded it somewhere.
 
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I saw that video and the comments. It was disgraceful. There are lots of decent people who have very little to their name. A small donation from someone on a low income is not just about the money. It’s about generosity and kindness. Unfortunately, some people seem to lack any kindness. It’s often who have the least who donate the most.
If my child’s life was on the line, I would be grateful for every single penny.
 
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Anyone seen Bbygurl video? The charity have messaged her by the looks of it. Bbygurl have responded and asked them can they answer these specific questions but to me it seems the charity have tried dodging the exact questions. They have said they are in talks with the surgeon in New York and have said there are things going on in the background so please be patient. They might be doing an investigation themselves to where all the money has gone. But they definitely missed out a few answers from BBygurl questions.
 
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H has a serious and legitimately diagnosed medical condition. It is very possible he would benefit from surgery and end up with a better quality of life and fewer symptoms. If they’d been open and transparent about the cost and the real reason for surgery, I am sure they’d still have raised money. They should never have asked for so much money without any evidence of exact costs and the expected outcome for H.
The claims that H has a very shortened life expectancy has also been an issue. Honestly though, if it “only” gives him a better quality of life, it’s still a valid reason to want him to have it. Any parent would fight tooth and nail to improve their child’s health.

“Our child has a debilitating, painful and deteriorating condition. We have the opportunity to improve his pain and breathing (or other symptoms) but we need to raise funds. Here is the breakdown of the quote the hospital gave us. Please help us help improve our son’s health. ” <— see, easy peasy! I’d donate to that, especially if via a charity.
 
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H has a serious and legitimately diagnosed medical condition. It is very possible he would benefit from surgery and end up with a better quality of life and fewer symptoms. If they’d been open and transparent about the cost and the real reason for surgery, I am sure they’d still have raised money. They should never have asked for so much money without any evidence of exact costs and the expected outcome for H.
The claims that H has a very shortened life expectancy has also been an issue. Honestly though, if it “only” gives him a better quality of life, it’s still a valid reason to want him to have it. Any parent would fight tooth and nail to improve their child’s health.

“Our child has a debilitating, painful and deteriorating condition. We have the opportunity to improve his pain and breathing (or other symptoms) but we need to raise funds. Here is the breakdown of the quote the hospital gave us. Please help us help improve our son’s health. ” <— see, easy peasy! I’d donate to that, especially if via a charity.
Yes we all agree Harley needs treatment but that’s not the issue. The issue is Kelly been lying from the start. She have been getting money in to her Bank account and thousands in TikTok gifts. She told everyone she would send proof every Friday of the money raised but never did. As someone who suffers with low lung function it has really pissed me off. She said he’s on oxygen 24/7 but also lied. Said he could not walk the stairs but lied again. She should have got all the money out in to one place but never did. She also still has the crowdfunding page up? Not sure what’s going on there. As I thought all money was to go to the charity now. There are a lot of small creators giving her money they have raised from their videos again pitting it in to her bank account but she’s not telling people. The wish list did toilet roll holders and towel rails is a joke. Apparently she raised 100k last year for the extension but the council paid for it.
Don’t get me wrong Harley could have the surgery but she said he could pass away here but what is the different in America then. Also she don’t need to fly first class with the whole family! She also told big creators he only had until April 1st or he would pass away but then changed her story
 
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She also mentioned on one of the deleted videos that some money has gone into a grandparents account. There are also ALOT of videos where people have stated they paid money directly into various bank accounts.
I think when she initially encouraged donations be through TikTok that is what made me question her as a person. Popularity seemed more important than the insane cut tik tok take.

Here we are witnessing the problem with social media and social media ‘influencers’. The only people monitoring them are the agencies set up by other influencers. It’s mental and very scary. Something needs to be done, and fast! And I’m not just talking about this situation.
 
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Usually a trusted friend of the family will set up a GFM and deal with it while the family themselves will do things to raise money. Just all a bit weird to be honest
 
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I'm not liking this charity and the way they are conducting themselves. I've seen a few of their comments to people which contradict themselves. Saying they pay will pay for all the fees and accounting costs but they don't charge a fee. But their online accounts show a very high amount of donation money gets spent on administration staff.
Harley was classed as needing life saving treatment by his munchy mum, then the charity stated life changing, now it's back to life saving.
The amount from the gfm does not include the private donations, money from tik tok, previous fund raising. And yeah why is the crowd fund not mentioned by the charity. All very strange 🤔
 
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Seen in Kelly’s post she mentions social services but makes out she contacted them. I don’t think so Kelly. They definitely been investigated.
 
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If I needed that much money for a life saving operation I wouldn’t be splashing out on matching outfits which is quite spenny considering they don’t work and live off benefits
 
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Did you notice she said in a post no one is to touch Harley as we called her out on her previous post from couple months back saying no one could touch him but then went to events and everyone had their hands on him whilst taking photos! She’s kept thousands of that money that’s why she can afford matching suits etc. plus gets full pip for Harley and her other son and herself 🤬
 
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If I needed that much money for a life saving operation I wouldn’t be splashing out on matching outfits which is quite spenny considering they don’t work and live off benefits
The colour of the dress washes her out completely. At first glance, I thought she was naked 😳 Why were they dressed up? Another fundraiser?
 
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Did you notice she said in a post no one is to touch Harley as we called her out on her previous post from couple months back saying no one could touch him but then went to events and everyone had their hands on him whilst taking photos! She’s kept thousands of that money that’s why she can afford matching suits etc. plus gets full pip for Harley and her other son and herself 🤬
If he was that poorly you just wouldn’t risk it full stop & get him to do a broadcasted FaceTime if he needs to appear to thank them all. She’s just very suss loves the attention, and money, clearly.
I hope she gets investigated, too many inconsistencies
 
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Yes another traveller community did a boxing event fundraiser
Wait til they figure out she's done them over, that won't be fun.

A child as seriously ill as H should not be in that environment. If his Mum's to be believed, H can't risk infection or viral bugs. So why is the whole family there?
 
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There's a few photos from the boxing where people are right next to him and the family. One woman has her arms around him.
She's since took him in to school and they went to the football last night. So he can't be that immune compromised going to one of the biggest germ infestations. She lies every time she speaks.
Also nothing stopping him from doing exams or going to prom. Lots of other teens with health conditions and special needs do it. She's the one who puts restrictions on him.
 
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