Hilary Holmes

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Hmm absolutely not, her kids are 4 and 5. She could give money for a hotel but that won’t do much tbh. Giving food and some spare cash is the best you can do.
I know, I was being sarcastic. She is continually shoving being kind down our throats, humanity etc etc… but only to a CERTAIN extent she acts on it.
 
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I’m so torn about this. I think it’s amazing what she’s doing. Whether it’s for engagement or not a guy is getting support he wants and needs and that’s fantastic.

The intensity of it is a bit wtf to me. Like she’s really investing so much time and money into him it’s a lot. And unsustainable. Like it’s not her role to ‘focus on helping him regulate’ or work with her doctor to ‘rid him of some bad habits’. She’s infantilising him and that’s a bit weird to me. And I wonder how she’ll manage it when she can’t sustain it anymore.
 
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I’m so torn about this. I think it’s amazing what she’s doing. Whether it’s for engagement or not a guy is getting support he wants and needs and that’s fantastic.

The intensity of it is a bit wtf to me. Like she’s really investing so much time and money into him it’s a lot. And unsustainable. Like it’s not her role to ‘focus on helping him regulate’ or work with her doctor to ‘rid him of some bad habits’. She’s infantilising him and that’s a bit weird to me. And I wonder how she’ll manage it when she can’t sustain it anymore.
ahh yes thank you. It’s felt a bit weird to me too but didn’t know how to say it. Yes great for Daniel but it’s very full on and it’s just not achievable for most people to even do.
 
Aren’t there rules around go fund me going to exactly the cause that is stated? Remember Celeste barber? Can Hilary legally change the destination of the money? Everyone blowing smoke up her a. She went way too far with this man. We all hope things would turn out great for Daniel but she got waaaayyy to invested especially when all she does is complain about how much she does, how she’s always burnt out but yes on a monthly holiday and it’s never a cheapy
 
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Hilary went in wayyyyyy too hard with Daniel dude. Who the hell invites someone into your home (that is a home to two very young children) that is sleeping right outside your house! I would never!!! She has noooooo clue who this dude is or what he’s done over his life!
 
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Aren’t there rules around go fund me going to exactly the cause that is stated? Remember Celeste barber? Can Hilary legally change the destination of the money? Everyone blowing smoke up her a. She went way too far with this man. We all hope things would turn out great for Daniel but she got waaaayyy to invested especially when all she does is complain about how much she does, how she’s always burnt out but yes on a monthly holiday and it’s never a cheapy
I've reported to go fund me. This is his money, she cannot pick and chose whether he gets it. He wants a car to live in, get him the car. She wants it to go to accommodation. She does not understand the complexities of homelessness.
She says he doesn't want the money, but she also mentioned he doesn't know how much it is.
Leave it in a trust waiting for him or something.
Helping someone with strings attached, ain't helping someone at all. Rant over.
 
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I've reported to go fund me. This is his money, she cannot pick and chose whether he gets it. He wants a car to live in, get him the car. She wants it to go to accommodation. She does not understand the complexities of homelessness.
She says he doesn't want the money, but she also mentioned he doesn't know how much it is.
Leave it in a trust waiting for him or something.
Helping someone with strings attached, ain't helping someone at all. Rant over.

100% agree. She’s not his mother. She can’t control him. He said he wanted help managing the money. She can’t just take it away from him altogether. She’s such a piece of tit honestly
 
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100% agree. She’s not his mother. She can’t control him. He said he wanted help managing the money. She can’t just take it away from him altogether. She’s such a piece of tit honestly
It could be managed by state trustees for him. I know that they take a a bit, but that doesn't matter in the scheme of this when he wouldn't have had it before. I'm so angry at this situation. She hasn't helped the homelessness community. She is now part of the problem. Working in this space has me beyond frustrated at her.
 
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