Milwalkeemarion
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He could be the love of your life , why miss out because of a few inches
I suppose it's hard to know what context it was really meant in. For example, I can think of 3 different people who could all say the same thing but imply something different based on how they say it. Does that make sense? I think it's hard to know what that really all meant unless you know their personality enough. If you have doubts about them maybe being a player at least go for a drink / dinner, have a fun night out and if you're not sure at least you gave it a shot?She made a comment saying she was 'well jel and that her bed is the only valentine she is getting tonight' his reply ' I'd love to invite but they say 3 is a crowd ' she then goes on to say at least her bed hasnt been stood up.
What am I suppose to make of that?
What kind of comment?Guys the meeting got cancelled this morning due to storm Dennis cancelling alot of public transport, it's been rescheduled. Bloody weather!
In light of this I happened to stumble across something last night and I'm unsure wether to approach it or not bother. I may be nothing but its now made me more wary.
It is a few commens between the guy in question and another female, now before someone comments about how we aren't together or I'm over reacting I'm fully aware this is the case but when it come to dating this day and age you need to have your wits about you cause you can get hurt.
Is there alot of height difference between them? I don't wear heels never have. We are due to meet but the closer the date gets the more I'm fretting, I know height shouldn't be an issue but it's something new.I'm short at 5 foot 1 so I wouldn't date someone shorter than me personally. My brothers wife is taller than him, I think it looks odd especially when she's in heels but it works for them, they've been married 9 years. There are plenty of celeb couples with the woman taller than their other half.
Why not meet and see what you think in person?
have you spoken about being exclusive yet, though? Just chatting to me doesn’t scream ‘exclusive’.She made a comment saying she was 'well jel and that her bed is the only valentine she is getting tonight' his reply ' I'd love to invite but they say 3 is a crowd ' she then goes on to say at least her bed hasnt been stood up.
What am I suppose to make of that?
Yeah it does make sense. I've been toying with the idea wether to ask him, we have rescheduled but the even weirder thing is I haven't heard off since 8pm Saturday night.I suppose it's hard to know what context it was really meant in. For example, I can think of 3 different people who could all say the same thing but imply something different based on how they say it. Does that make sense? I think it's hard to know what that really all meant unless you know their personality enough. If you have doubts about them maybe being a player at least go for a drink / dinner, have a fun night out and if you're not sure at least you gave it a shot?
Hes 5ft 7 and she's 5ft 10.Is there alot of height difference between them? I don't wear heels never have. We are due to meet but the closer the date gets the more I'm fretting, I know height shouldn't be an issue but it's something new.
No, you are not an idiot at all. It's normal to get a bit nervous and over think things. Fingers crossed your meet up goes well. Keep us updated.Thank you all for you replies, its good to have an insight into something like this.
We haven't actually met yet although it's planned, as a typical women I'm starting to stress about it but not for my previous reasons (height) it's more so will there be that spark that comes across over message, as we get on so well although this week there has been a shift in the how much we are actually talking, he previously stated there is gonna be times when he won't speak as he is busy at work, today has been one of those days. Does it make me sound stupid? As I got so use to talking to him everyday, I've been let down before so I'm convinced it's gonna happen again.
I think I need to stop being such an idiot and just focus on our meeting.
She made a comment saying she was 'well jel and that her bed is the only valentine she is getting tonight' his reply ' I'd love to invite but they say 3 is a crowd ' she then goes on to say at least her bed hasnt been stood up.What kind of comment?
We have touched base on the matter, but obviously in till we meet then there is no knowing what might happen.have you spoken about being exclusive yet, though? Just chatting to me doesn’t scream ‘exclusive’.
But I’ve also never dated online so I wouldn’t know. I’d say that’s a flirty comment but honestly I don’t think I’d look too much into it if you haven’t even met yet.
It's hard not to judge due to past experience, I know you shouldn't let your pass dictate your future.I wouldn't judge him based on a silly online comment. At the moment he's a single man and people comment things online all the time that mean nothing! If you get on well then just go for it.. you've got nothing to lose. You might click and get on really well, he might be lovely, if not, you hopefully had a nice evening out anyway.