Blond3g1rl
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Honestly, I think you are mad.
In that case it isn't really going alone then? It would be a huge impact to his life. I think you need to talk to him as going for donor IVF when you are still in a relationship with him seems really selfish.I don’t want to end the relationship, not at this point at least. I just also don’t want to wait for him to be ready any longer when I am ready and time is ticking. So I guess stay together and seek IVF donor at this point.
THIS. You need the opinion of a third party who knows the full picture, and isn't emotionally attached to either of you. If there is ever going to be a future child, you need to go into that situation with your eyes wide open to ALL that it will entail, for the rest of your life.Really and truly I think both you and your husband need counselling together and separately before any child is created
I don’t want to end the relationship, not at this point at least. I just also don’t want to wait for him to be ready any longer when I am ready and time is ticking. So I guess stay together and seek IVF donor at this point.If you do "go it alone" are you talking about ending the relationship? Or would you still be together but seek IVF via donor or similar?