Hari Beavis BTC #837 It’s time for a thread…

[Isanythingrealanymore]

I don’t follow her but she keeps popping up so I’ve blocked her today. She’s preaching on tiktok like she’s the first person to ever get pregnant.

also, they fell pregnant within 8 months of starting to try and they’d already been to the GP…. She just makes my eyes roll constantly 🫣

 

[mcgee]

I honestly don’t know how this girl is gonna cope when she has a baby. Pregnancy is nothing compared to postpartum.

She seems to have quite a simplistic view on it, some could argue naivety as it’s her first but equally when I was pregnant with my first I knew it wasn’t going to be as simple as she is making out. Talking about she can’t function well with sleep deprivation so if husband can give the baby one bottle at night that will help loads. I hate to be that person but it doesn’t always work as simple as that. She’s going to be hit hard with a reality check and she will be on TikTok on a daily basis talking about how hard it is like she’s the first to ever have a baby.

 

[lambrini.mami]

“Are the mum cozy breast pumps worth it” translates to “send me a breast pump for free”

She’s soooo bad for this, currently on the beg for a shark ninja

 

[jasmineflatbread]

I feel like she might go full tradwife when she has this baby tbf, she doesn't seem very maternal mind considering they wanted to have a baby so badly

 

[Bluerabbit123]

So shes got a whole day away from her small baby and then the whole weekend too?! Ive never known someone be away from their baby so much at such a young age

 

[lambrini.mami]

Not surprised she’s announced a pregnancy, I did wonder if that was the real reason for the shotgun wedding as for a family orientated person, it seemed odd she would plan a wedding in Greece that her family wouldn’t be confident to attend.

I hope she’s happy as things have moved very quickly with her husband - they got engaged pretty quickly and it’s only been a year and they’re already married and expecting.

 

[Tippingpoint23]

Has anyone seen her latest post about not putting couples next to each other at her second wedding? How is she confused that people would be annoyed by that? She’s asking people to come to an abroad wedding which is already such a big ask, and it’s not even a legal ceremony they are already married. You cannot ask people to spend to much of their time and money on you to not have them sat next to their partner. Is this even a wedding or a 1st anniversary party?

I don’t understand why this is a thing and has become a thing!! I have been to two weddings now where the bride and groom have floated this as an idea and everyone has been like ?? No I want to sit next to or opposite my partner please!!!

 

[nolongerlurking]

Her birth story is slightly insufferable it sounds traumatic but the fact she’d written off a c section because she’s scared of surgery is bonkers. Did she think it would be sunshine and she’d sneeze and the baby would pop out?

I got half way through and had to take a break.. she’s so insufferable

 

[Tippingpoint23]

I think the wedding industry has turned everyone a little bit mad. I wouldn’t want to travel to a wedding and not sit next to my partner! I also don’t love when you go to a wedding and they mix up the tables, if it’s a uni friends wedding half the fun is getting to chat to people you know but haven’t seen in a while rather than someone’s work colleague or auntie (sorry!!)

I don’t know why Hari is bothering with the wedding. All she does is moan moan moan moan about EVERYTHING!!!

Yes agreed!! Why are you mixing up tables let friends sit together and enjoy themselves stop forcing your fun friends to bring the vibes for your not fun friends

 

[lambrini.mami]

She needs to turn the camera off, stop vlogging every inconvenience or difficulty and turning into a major drama and touch grass!!!!!

 

[lalallalaa]

TBF she didn't need to show her boob falling out to start the video

 

[GBPackersFan91]

I’m sure she’s spent the last week or so trying so hard to convince everyone that she is not like other girls. Posting about how she likes to eat bread, she doesn’t count calories/protein, and doesn’t drink matcha or expensive coffee. Like it is totally abnormal that she doesn’t like/do these things.
And now she’s doing cringe and stage ads for sofas with her husband (apparently got married in a secret, low key ceremony), because the sofa is the centre hub of the home and is where most things take place, like important conversations

I used to think she was quite sweet and she come across as genuine, but it’s like she is trying so hard to find a new niche and narrative after moving away from posts about bra’s/her ‘big t*tt*es’

Also her husband comes across as a right wet weekend (sorry)

 

[Esme]

She already had an argument with someone in the comments about safe sleep they will never follow safe guidelines as they would prefer a life without the inconvenience of them (they shouldn’t have had a baby, like most others)

 

[Italy2]

Still can’t for the life of me understand why she’s doing this wedding in Greece when she’s already married and refers him as her husband.

It’s probably for the gram

 

[Isanythingrealanymore]

Does she do anything but complain?

Apparently not! Every post is the same

 

[amuseablehollie]

She’s been quiet for a while has she finally popped or is it just to drum up speculation? It’s March 1st she cried at the thought of not having a Feb baby

 

[Sophie92]

She’s jumped into so many relationships extremely quickly. I wonder if it’s driven by her enjoying being a home body and not wanting to have to get a proper job.

 

[MissPiggyLidia]

I can’t say I’m surprised she has her own thread. I couldn’t stand her when she used to drape her boobs across the kitchen counter in the name of ‘food content.’
When she shared pregnancy content, though, I didn’t mind her as much, mainly because I assumed she was in her mid-30s and had struggled for a long time to have a baby and I think most of the videos I saw were just before the baby arrived and I thought it was a one off that she was feeling fed up of being pregnant at that point.

However, I’m genuinely dumbfounded by her current content. Is she that naive and out of touch that she expected motherhood to be plain sailing? She comes across as incredibly ‘pick me,’ and I honestly feel sorry for the child because she seems so unstable.

Did she even want a baby as the whole thing seems to be a massive inconvenience to her.

 

[MissPiggyLidia]

I mean this in the nicest way possible, and I’m surprised it hasn’t been mentioned already. But I’m genuinely concerned about how she is going to cope when the baby comes. Every single post she makes seems to be her making mountains out of molehills. Overthinking and over analysing absolutely anything and everything and making small/everyday things seem like such a huge deal. I hope she has a good support next work around her because with every video I watch I think “eeekkk how is she going to cope when the baby is actually here?”

Damn, you were spot on with this!

 

[Sophie92]

You’d think she’s the first woman to have ever given birth.