Hari Beavis BTC #837 It’s time for a thread…

[Twirlypoo]

She never really bothered me, but I def feel motherhood has been a shock for her. She looks so miserable in her stories just now saying she is back at work with a Velcro baby. I hope she had good people around her, she’s very immature and entitled, but for her babies sake she needs some
Help I think!

 

[heather_83]

Oh big shock, motherhood is bloody hard isn’t it Hari? Hilarious that she’s now an expert.

 

[Esme]

I no longer believe it was for the grandparents benefit either. She posted about their friends wedding, who had done a wedding at home and one abroad.

She’s simply trying to keep up with everyone else. Their home wedding was beautiful. Absolutely no need for the Greece one. It’s all for show.

 

[KarenOG]

Has anyone seen her latest post about not putting couples next to each other at her second wedding? How is she confused that people would be annoyed by that? She’s asking people to come to an abroad wedding which is already such a big ask, and it’s not even a legal ceremony they are already married. You cannot ask people to spend to much of their time and money on you to not have them sat next to their partner. Is this even a wedding or a 1st anniversary party?

Where did she say she wouldn’t be sitting people with their partners?

I don’t like her attitude of if you don’t like who you’re sat next to just be quiet and have a drink. What a lovely experience for your guests who have travelled all the way to Greece for you.

Perhaps an unpopular opinion, but if you’re getting married abroad and your guests are travelling from overseas to be there, then you need to prioritise the hospitality of your guests.

 

[jiggy_girl]

Apparently not! Every post is the same

It must be soooo hard when your entire job is sitting on the sofa on your laptop

 

[lambrini.mami]

I’m not particularly fond of Hari and I don’t think she’s very articulate in the way she attempts to portray her opinions and views. The story is poorly worded and difficult to follow and she does have habit for being a drama queen at every slight inconvenience.

However I do absolutely believe, based off the stories of numerous friends who’ve given birth recently, that empathetic and holistic maternity care in the UK is severely lacking. There are some wonderful midwives out there but the system is broken, underfunded and needs change. I can very well believe she had a difficult birthing experience that left her feeling vulnerable. There’s been loads in the news about poor maternity care recently. I even have a friend get turned away from A&E, told they were overreacting by staff to only give birth severely prematurely at home a couple of hours later. Baby is fine and doing well now but could have been very different outcome. We really should be demanding better for women everywhere.

 

[jasmineflatbread]

I think she's trying to portray a certain way of life definitely like she's very normal and doing normal relatable things lmaoo, as if having a cottage and a quite a large garden and trips to the cotswolds is sooooo cheap and normal idk she's harmless enough just annoying and pretending like shes not middle class, it's her husband that makes me uncomfortable there's something really off about him

 

[Esme]

She seems very naive and immature. I don’t understand their hurry to have a baby when they hadn’t sorted things in their life or had much time together. She seems quite bitter about that.

As for the day not going as planned because of the baby…she’d better really get used to that! She is in for the biggest shock.

 

[Sophie92]

I’m so glad I’ve found this thread. I totally agree that this relationship moved extremely quickly and she was still living with the last guy 5 minutes before this one moved in. I think motherhood is going to be a huge shock for her.

 

[Xdestarx]

They were literally spilling out and she was constantly adjusting her bikini top all video... She knew exactly what she was doing posting that . Her whole USP a few years ago was her cooking in low cut tops for views? She's not niave.

 

[GBPackersFan91]

I don't want to be mean but I don't think she's very bright? She seems like one of those girls who dreams of a prince charming sweeping them away and getting married from when they're in preschool.
She's spoken about her mum coming from nothing and building the quite middle class sort of life that she had growing up so I feel like that makes a big difference, I know people like it and they are completely oblivious to the world outside and are very similar to her.

I mean she was moaning about the price of a getaway they went on in the cotswolds or something lmao like what did you expect


Is it just me that thinks she just got really lucky with the whole influencing thing? I mean she's a very attractive woman who cooks in a cottage kitchen there's not much to her other than the outside again and that booby page that kinda flopped pardon the pun It seems like alot of people who liked her are drawn to her because she is nice to look at and she happened to live in a house alot of people dream of with the whole cottagecore thing being massive nowadays

The majority of comments on her food/cooking content used to come from men because she’d nearly always have her boobs hanging out of a low cut top etc. and I’m not saying she enjoyed the comments, but she certainly seemed to play up to them.
Now I’m not saying she should be cooking in her winter coat fully zipped up to stop the comments.

Also I’d never think she was early to mid 20s. Not just because of all she has done so early in her life (married, own home, pregnant etc) but I’d definitely have her down as more early 30’s

 

[Tippingpoint23]

I got half way through and had to take a break.. she’s so insufferable

She didn’t want to be induced, she didn’t want a c section, she couldn’t advocate for herself or make decisions for herself and had to get her husband to. The midwives didn’t drop everything and kick someone off the ward for her the whole thing was wild and incredibly entitled

 

[Italy2]

Her mannerisms remind me of a retired woman. Also, her baby slept through a night because she dumped that 2 month old baby in the next room so now she is a sleep expert. Please tune in to get more revolutionary advice from harry, sorry hari

 

[mmae]

Does anyone think she is doing some major body checking in all her post baby content?

 

[lambrini.mami]

How does she have so much money to do this all though I don’t get it

I get the sense that she is from a relatively middle class background but I don’t think she’s independently wealthy - she complains a lot about money and I do wonder if it’s rooted in not being able to afford the same quality of life that she grew up with. I don’t think her fella is particularly wealthy.

 

[Esme]

Does she ever stop complaining?! She’s clearly wanting baby here asap, one of those “it’s my due date” obsessed.

 

[Sophie92]

So annoying! She has no idea how incredibly privileged she is!

 

[heather_83]

I honestly don’t know how this girl is gonna cope when she has a baby. Pregnancy is nothing compared to postpartum.

 

[AmberRosexx]

I only really have an account on here to follow tv show posts from things I watch but omg I had to comment on this thread. This woman drives me CRAZY!! I actually bought her cook books etc and liked her but I feel like the pregnancy hormones have shown her true colours maybe. So entitled, living such a privileged life, pregnant (what a blessing!!) and yet ALL she can do is complain. Absolutely tone deaf.

 

[Esme]

She’s incredibly whiney now she’s pregnant I’m really surprised how quickly it has all happened in their relationship. I assumed they’d been together for years! Especially as they seemed desperate to get pregnant.

She mentioned how she’s not into spending money, is into a wholesome simple life, think she mentioned designer but she has a LV neverfull