I totally understand the first year where they were tiny and very vulnerable. Riley has chronic lung disease and a simple cold could have easily landed either of them back in hospital. At that stage I don’t think the eldest was attending school/ kindy/ childcare so they were essentially isolating which I don’t think was unreasonable.This is because of covid. What I was describing as “hibernating” is how they have lived since the twins got home from hospital. Literally seen her take them to a playground once in their lives![]()
However, once the eldest started at school the following year and Grecian was back at work I feel that the cost of “hibernating” would have far outweighed the benefits. They would have been exposed to whatever their sister brought home from school and they did get sick from time to time although I don’t recall that either of them ever got seriously Ill. The cost however of not allowing them to explore the world by taking them out to playgrounds, parks, museums, the zoo, cafes, the beach (whatever it is that your family enjoys) is quite obvious. They have not had the opportunity to do these activities on a regular basis and have had very minimal interaction with other children.
I get that each family have to do what’s best for them but given that they were exposed to “germs from the outside world” anyway, I feel like perhaps they could have benefited from getting out and about a bit more.