When she keeps calling her “her healing baby”, she genuinely needs to have some proper therapy. I feel sorry for Riley, when she understands that her mother acts as though it was so traumatic having her she needed to have a 4th baby to heal her. Obviously Riley has higher needs but she just makes out her life is so difficult because of Riley, and how it impacts everything else for them instead of getting on with it. The lack of extra things her girls do is so sad, girls their age are doing sport, dancing, swimming, gymnastics, regular play dates - not sitting at home constantly.