Just a few things.
IF is she leaving those children at home on a night, we can't prove either way but I strongly suspect she does, then her husband is jusy as bad as he clearly enables her. How many of your partners would agree to you leaving your young children home alone once never mind serval times a week? Mine would slap the shit out of me and rightly so.
The tiredness, I believe its caused by the weightless surgery she's likely had. She lots a lot of weight rapidly, and now seems fixated on her weight. We never see her workout, even go for a walk, or eat a large meal its always little snacks which aligns with her having a smaller than normal stomach. Tiredness is a major side effect of weightloss surgery, particularly with a vitamin deficiencies.
The shoes - absolutely proves she takes everything she buys back to the shops, why would she so be so bothered about a 30 quid pair of shoes being returned if she's a #bosslady with all of this disposable income? The math ain't matching Jessy.
Car repayments through the roof and Bossman told you to rein it in?
She's a fucking car crash and an utter embarrassment