Have you gone to the CAB? They should be able to help you with the contractThere are a lot of other problems with the flat itself that I could cite as reasons. There is a large amount of damp and mould appearing which is causing me health problems. I dunno. I'm tired and ill and so sad and broken I can't cope with it all.
Hi, firstly sorry to hear your boyfriend has been a grade a dickhead.Can anyone give me any advice about ending a lease early? I've caught my boyfriend on dating sites numerous times and 2 months after we have moved in together I have caught him again. I'm a fucking mug. He's not on the lease, it's just in my name only but it's my first time renting and I'm not sure if I could get out of it early or not??
Sorry that's a bit garbled I'm just not doing well.
Oh @Sazbee I'm sorry you are ill. Have you been able to speak to any of your family yet? Even to let them know where you are? I completely understand that you love him and want to stay in the relationship but you deserve so much better. Wishing you a speedy recovery.I'm sorry I haven't replied to anyone. I've been very ill and been admitted to hospital. I've only been replying to the more lighthearted threads on here because I'm struggling to think about everything. My family are about 50 miles away which isn't too far. The saddest thing is I don't want to leave him. I know I have to. I don't have much choice. But I don't want to.
Oh @Sazbee I'm sorry you are ill. Have you been able to speak to any of your family yet? Even to let them know where you are? I completely understand that you love him and want to stay in the relationship but you deserve so much better. Wishing you a speedy recovery.
Thank you both. I'm doing better now I'm in hospital. Weirdly it's actually the best place to think about things. My family know where I am and some of the situation. I know you are both right and it will get better. I was with someone else for 6 years who did similar to me. Then another for 4 years who emotionally abused me so I know I can get out and there is light at the end of the tunnel. Think I'm just so desperate to be happy.@Sazbee you poor thing, I hope you get well soon. It can be hard to walk away from a relationship, even when you know it’s the right thing to do. If you still love someone, you can’t switch those feelings off, but at some point your survival instincts need to kick in - this relationship is not making you happy and it sounds like it’s making you quite unwell.
It may sound like a cliche, but it will get better and in time you’ll look back on this time and realise that you’re a lot stronger than maybe you give yourself credit for.
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