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Regina Fellangi

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Anyone else feeling utterly hopeless and overwhelmed after this ludicrous judgement? Coupled with the news of the Taluban’s latest assault on women’s human rights. Apparently ad their voices are « intimate « they must not speak in public, recite poetry or sing. I want to use my intimate voice to scream from the highest rooftops about this monstrous act. Why aren’t people protesting in the streets about this? They’ll take to the streets for pretty much anything these days. I fucking hate this world.
 
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Weebles Wobble

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Just saw this and I know it's not gender related directly but I think it just highlights how empty the "trans rights" movement is. I'm too tired to articulate properly but seriously, thousands upon thousands spent on virtue signaling when we don't have the fucking basics right.
Last year I posted about how our local supermarket had a huge Pride display in the entrance, but didn't make it clear that not all of their check outs were wheelchair-accessible. A cashier explained that there were a few wider aisles further up, but that I had to "look for them". :rolleyes: Shame they couldn't make them as colourful as the Trans Pride display!

For context, my partner uses a wheelchair and is reliant on someone else to operate it (for health reasons). We either attach a wheelchair trolley to the front or he puts a basket on his knee. We find the self-service tills very difficult to use due to lack of space, at least the ones locally are designed for one person and his wheelchair blocks the next till, also forcing customers to squeeze past him.

So I was interested to read a BBC article about self-service tills, especially this bit:
Tesco said it introduced self-checkout tills nearly 20 years ago. A spokesperson for the country's biggest supermarket said: "We are proud to offer customers choice when it comes to checking out and customers can always ask a colleague for a manned till to be opened."

But Fazilet Hadi, head of policy at Disability Rights UK, said customers should not have to ask for a staffed till to be opened. "They're not always that visible, these staff. What if I can't see them?"


This is true of many situations when a person has a disability. The help is there but not always obvious (I didn't know I could request this) and often involves wandering around trying to find someone to help - quite ironic that those with mobility difficulties often have the furthest to go!

But it was her next sentence that really caught my eye and made me think about the Trans issues.

However she acknowledged that reasonable adjustments for people with disabilities "have to be proportionate".
"What's reasonable for a multi-million pound chain may not be reasonable for a corner shop," she said, but added that choice was important as everyone's needs are different.


From a disability viewpoint I agree with her. Adjustments have to be reasonable and proportionate. A simple adjustment to the till situation could be to have a buzzer to press to request assistance instead of hunting a member of staff down.

But look at that sentence again replacing disabilities with Trans.
...reasonable adjustments for Trans people "have to be proportionate".
...choice was important as everyone's needs are different.

This is what's not happening. Adjustment for Trans people are not proportionate. Their needs are trampling over everyone else's. Choice is not given, we have to go along with the mantra or be labelled as bigots, Nazis and or cancelled.

Trans people have a choice. They can choose not to infringe our spaces, take our places in our sports and insist that our language is changed to suit them.
The vast majority of disabled people have no choice. They can't identify out of their disability and fit in with the rest of the world.

Here's the article.
 
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Nettynoo

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I’m just looking for some advice please. I read this thread a lot and completely agree with a lot of the posts. I think the subject resonates with me as I was a child who wanted to be a boy. For most of my childhood i only played with ‘boys’ toys, I was misgendered countless times, one of my earliest memories is of having a screaming fit because I didn’t want to wear a dress! Luckily my parents just went with it and I eventually grew out of it. It makes me feel sick to know that if I’d have been a child now I would probably be on some sort of pathway to puberty blockers.
Anyway my 8 year old child has come home today with a book from school about a trans child - My Sister Daisy. It’s about a kid whose nursery age brother becomes his sister. I’m so angry that they’ve handed out this without consulting parents first. The book in my eyes makes being trans sound fun and exciting ( the brother is jealous of all the new clothes and attention the sister now gets) obviously fails to mention the lifetime of medication, pain, incontinence etc…I don’t want my 8 year old being given something at school that leads her to question her own identity and confuses her. I’m just struggling with what to say to the school without them just branding me a bigot. I do realise that my child will have to know about trans people at some point, but I’d rather it’s when she’s older and more mature.
 
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Satisfying Click

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Amnesty International's approach is fucking gross. By suggesting the women of Afghanistan identify as such, it infers that they can segue out of their oppression by identifying as men. Not only is that false, but has a victim-blaming flavour to it, "Oh you silly women, the solution is right in front of you!"
 
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nothanksbabes

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Is anyone else feeling worn out from all this nonsense? I'm so fucking tired of women being gaslit and shouted down. Since time immemorial, men have been default and have dictated what women are, what we should think and how we should behave and now peak 21st century progressiveness has us reduced to what men feel we are. Tale as old as fucking time.

Who are these weirdos?
Why's it always the least impressively endowed men desperate to get their cocks out in public?
 
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Mugglewump

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Someone has just called me homophobic as I said I'd never stay with a man who transitioned.
I questioned it, and he'd be a lesbian.
Right then!
Ffs.
I'm actually asexual but do not put me in the weird alphabets, I don't want a shag, no one needs to know about it, nor does it need to be celebrated.
 
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Yeah....Brackie

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Morning TERFS 💕
I saw some more ridiculous pRoNoUnS I'd never heard of so I googled, and thought of you all and the hope the tide is turning
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zetta buttons

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“A binary gender system is a painful reminder of exclusion”.

Ok. So seeing the entirety of our living systems on this planet must also be a painful reminder of exclusion because they also come about because of a binary system.

Fuck off.
 
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Mismatched Pegs

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Whenever I'm happy I always make sure that I carry round a sign saying I am. Rather than just you know live my life being happy.

#methinktheladydothprotesttoomuch
 
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Tofino

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Just read this very disturbing story about a teenager on the autism spectrum with a learning disability in the U.S who has been removed from his family because they don’t believe medical staff who told them their child wants to ‘transition’. He’d never mentioned anything about this to them, but seems to have been preyed upon during a hospital admission. It makes my blood run cold.


The lawsuit says the child is currently living with the hospital's 'non-gendered' chaplain, Lavender Kelley, who regularly posts online about trans issues.

In one post on Facebook from 2022, Kelley said they supported transitioning children without their parents' consent — saying they were 'drained' from arguing with families.

The suit adds that, since being removed from the care of his parents, the youngster has appeared in provocative and sexually suggestive poses on Instagram.


No red flags here at all 🙄 In what world is it ok for a member of staff at a hospital to take a child patient home with them.
 
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usefullyuseless

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Every single woman I know who breastfed or attempted to, did so for the good of their baby. It makes me so fucking mad that these LARPers try to steal this from us and put innocent babies health at risk. We're told not to drink, smoke, eat certain things when pregnant - for the sake of our babies (and get vilified for not paying attention to the advice). But along comes a man who wants a baby to suckle his fake boobs and it's all fine, let the baby ingest a cocktail of drugs and pseudo milk. Think of the poor transwomen who only wants to do what other women get to do, you bunch of hateful bigots.
FUCK OFF.
There's women (actual women) who want to breastfeed who don't get the support these men do.
 
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Em_gardener

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Amnesty International's approach is fucking gross. By suggesting the women of Afghanistan identify as such, it infers that they can segue out of their oppression by identifying as men. Not only is that false, but has a victim-blaming flavour to it, "Oh you silly women, the solution is right in front of you!"
It's actually one of the most disgusting things I've seen in this whole debacle. What those women are going through is horrendous and it's got nothing to do with some made up identity in their heads. It's all based on biology.
 
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klarakluckbag

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It also demonstrates more than ever that we need a legal definition of "woman" - and also that any men claiming to be women should have to prove how they fulfil that definition. None of this circular argument rubbish.
Quote from @TheMiceInTheShed
I don't think we need a legal definition of "woman", everyone already knows what a woman is, no matter what a deluded Australian judge says.
What we actually need, is a legal definition of "Man", which includes all men. Those men who wear dresses and lipstick. Those men who cut their genitals off. Those men who yell at women speaking whilst wearing masks and hoods. Those men who have XY chromosomes but were brought up as female (sad though this is).
Men of all shapes, sizes, gay men, straight men, men who call themselves "trans". All of them. All barred from women's spaces, sports, dating apps, toilets, changing rooms, anywhere that women don't want them. Every single human with XY chromosomes...men.
What is so difficult about that? 🙄
 
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Lukeal70

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Just been to local hospital for an appointment ( can't get used to Sunday being a normal day for hospital appts now). As soon as I got there I saw the rainbow crossings & felt riled. When I was leaving I put my hand in my pocket & realised I had LWS stickers in there. I doubled back & went into the loos. I was so happy when I realised I had an 'ideology over health' one in there.
Stickered those toilets up good. I am sure they will be removed soon but made me a feel a little better.
 
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klarakluckbag

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Maybe I'll start being more sympathetic to male suicide rates when men stop taking their wives and kids with them when they top themselves.
Sorry, I know that's brutal, but I'm sick of hearing stories about adults and children being found dead at their home, and discovering that it's a murder/suicide case yet again. Usually because the woman dared to leave an unhappy relationship. It's absolutely right that we should be concerned about male MH issues, they put women at risk after all. 😡😡😡
 
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