Gender Discussion #71

[Tea_and_Biscuits]

I don't know if anyone else has heard about the stupid 'demure' trend going about. I *hate* people using words wrongly so it was already winding me up, posting yourself on tiktok in your make up isn't demure. But I've just heard a bit more about the originator and it definitely doesn't make me feel more positive about it, yet again a trans women telling us women how to be View attachment 3123625View attachment 3123626View attachment 3123627

I looked this up yesterday as I was curious why so many reels on IG were suddenly using that audio.

I don't actually think LeBron knows what demure actually means and what in earth is a 'green cut crease'?! It sounds like a fungal infection!

 

[Nelly's mum]

Aww one of our recent visitors has given us another shout out on the Southport thread

Yeh, he's on Celebrity Gossip mansplaining about drag now, he doesn't understand why people (presumably the cervix-having variety) get so worked up about it.

I would like to see him try to have a similar discussion with people of colour about The Black and White Minstrels Show or Love Thy Neighbour

 

[maytoseptember]

Aww one of our recent visitors has given us another shout out on the Southport thread

Had him blocked well before he turned up on this thread. Very weird vibes.

 

[Scotch Mist]

Had him blocked well before he turned up on this thread. Very weird vibes.

I have a number of idiotic posters on this forum on ignore because I don't want to engage with them and can't be arsed to argue with them.

This Josh Seiter guy is hilarious he's so obviously a man who will never pass as a woman. He needs a good mirror and a shrink if his transition isn't satire.

I love that so many are questioning his womanface

 

[Tofino]

I have a number of idiotic posters on this forum on ignore because I don't want to engage with them and can't be arsed to argue with them.

This Josh Seiter guy is hilarious he's so obviously a man who will never pass as a woman. He needs a good mirror and a shrink if his transition isn't satire.

I love that so many are questioning his womanface

it’s not womanface. It’s Transwomanface which is far worse because it’s literal violence.

 

[Weebles Wobble]

it’s not womanface. It’s Transwomanface which is far worse because it’s literal violence.

I genuinely laughed at your "literal violence" bit, but you've absolutely nailed it with "Transwomanface."

It's okay when TIM's appropriate everything that belongs to a real woman (even claiming to have periods ) while showing no empathy or understanding of what it's actually like to be a woman and why we have concerns about men in our spaces.

Yet when a man appropriates a TIM, they are outraged! As the old saying goes "the biter bit". And I'm loving it!

 

[HockyRorror]

840 but looks like it was edited (maybe mods although I didn’t report it) but you can see a quoted version in 843.

I thought you meant the other poster. I can’t link to it because it will mean an instant ban but he’s hopped on an “associated but not associated” forum complaining about the mean gender discussion thread and how he was only trying to explain and he can’t see why everyone was so nasty and uneducated about what he was saying

 

[VC10]

Theses been a few come onto this thread on Tattle ( thinking it's like their normal converted forum bubbles that they've invaded & converted to thought-speak , with moderators on their side, and no dissent after they've shouted them down etc) & they soon come unstuck on here when they can't force their views/ issues onto everyone.
Also , Tattle is a huge forum which is read all over the World by media and some surprisingly important people , not the usual crap dying type forum with about 400 members ( of which only 14 are active lols )

 

[Tofino]

I thought you meant the other poster. I can’t link to it because it will mean an instant ban but he’s hopped on an “associated but not associated” forum complaining about the mean gender discussion thread and how he was only trying to explain and he can’t see why everyone was so nasty and uneducated about what he was saying

Which site links give us an instant ban if we post? I’ve tried looking in the rules but can’t find it. I know some links are auto removed like MN and Manchester evening news.

 

[peachplumpear]

The TRAs who periodically turn up on the Mumsnet feminism boards all have one of the following writing styles, and I see it on here and other forums too:
- Endless, self-centred monologues about themselves and their lives. Either ‘true trans’ types () or late transitioners banging on about how hard it was to be a big manly computer programmer in the 80s when all they really wanted to do was wear fairy wings and listen to Kylie
- im a woman lol but i dont care if a trans woman uses the ladies lol also im a les lol sisters not cisters lol yh
- ‘I’m really here to understand!/Wow I’m DONE trying to understand you’re a bunch of nasty witches’

 

[Phil Anne Throw Pee]

^ Yeah:

'I have hundreds of trans friends and they are all living their best lives'.
'Live and let live, why the nastiness?'
'I don't care where anyone people, toilets are just toilets'.
'If someone is predominantly male, why shouldn't they compete against women? BE KIND'.

Usually an incel basement dweller who thinks women are good for intercourse, breeding, cooking and cleaning and it was much better in the days when grape within marriage was legal and when women had to get a man's permission to sort out their own finances. Usually stinks of gunk and hasn't seen a dentist in 35 years.

 

[Nelly's mum]

I thought you meant the other poster. I can’t link to it because it will mean an instant ban but he’s hopped on an “associated but not associated” forum complaining about the mean gender discussion thread and how he was only trying to explain and he can’t see why everyone was so nasty and uneducated about what he was saying

I can't see that one's posts I looked on Tattle and Googled him?

 

[Peachsquish]

I thought you meant the other poster. I can’t link to it because it will mean an instant ban but he’s hopped on an “associated but not associated” forum complaining about the mean gender discussion thread and how he was only trying to explain and he can’t see why everyone was so nasty and uneducated about what he was saying

Do you mean the guy who's profile used to be a penguin? Got upset with anyone who disagreed with his point of view wouldn't even look at any alternative points of view and blamed others as to why no one wanted to post on 'his thread'

 

[Nelly's mum]

Do you mean the guy who's profile used to be a penguin? Got upset with anyone who disagreed with his point of view wouldn't even look at any alternative points of view and blamed others as to why no one wanted to post on 'his thread'

No not him. He flounced off, started up LGB thread, then flounced off again when other posters didn't agree with him. He hasn't posted for months last time I checked

 

[Futtrit]

Poor thems!

I think we need to get the big guns out.....

 

[Tui]

I can't see that one's posts I looked on Tattle and Googled him?

It’s Pete isn’t it?

 

[Nelly's mum]

It’s Pete isn’t it?

Yes it seems to be. I misunderstood, I thought the poster was referring to the other man who was posting and pretending he was a les

 

[TheMiceInTheShed]

Yes it seems to be. I misunderstood, I thought the poster was referring to the other man who was posting and pretending he was a les

I got sick of Pete.

I blocked him. In all of my time here I have only ever blocked 2 people, so that is an accolade he can brag about - that he is so utterly tedious and thick that I couldn't be arsed to read his mind-numbing dross.

 

[MaineCoonMama]

Someone on the Celeb thread suggested M'Anne Splayne as a drag name, I wish I could remember whose post it was as it really tickled me.

ETA it was @Futtrit.

 

[Futtrit]

Someone on the Celeb thread suggested M'anne Splayne as a drag name, I wish I could remember whose post it was as it really tickled me.

It was meeeee!