Jayceedove
Active member
SueDoYou
I do not patrol what people with obviously reasonable concerns over this choose to say. Nor should you. We all make our own decisions here. We have a right to do.so Even if they differ from mine or yours.
There were rules even 50 years ago that we agreed to follow drawn up with and by the NHS and were created by mutual discussions over those years. These included no penises in women's changing rooms or toilets ever. No access with or without to any women's groups set up for things where they might be uncomfortable talking freely - such as groups for survivers of abuse from men. Why I gave up my job as a radiographer because one of the team objected to my treating women. Today I bet a trans activist would issue a lawsuit against the NHS over that call and be all over the papers crying at the hatred. Not just understand, accept and move on to something that let you do something useful without causing upset as I did.
I neither see confrontation as the right way to do things or a right - as if you intend to live AS a woman but do not care ABOUT the concerns of women you live alongside then you are probably in the wrong gender identity. Whatever the heck one of those is as I have no idea.
We accepted society was making genuine accommodations for us and we should respect that and offer things in return. It is what decent people do. Give and Take. Not take and sue.
I hate the way these positive things are now being made to seem as if they never happened because the trans community - whatever that is nowadays - are so extraordinarily self centred.
But then if so many of them are AGP men as I fear then it is no surprise.
I do not patrol what people with obviously reasonable concerns over this choose to say. Nor should you. We all make our own decisions here. We have a right to do.so Even if they differ from mine or yours.
There were rules even 50 years ago that we agreed to follow drawn up with and by the NHS and were created by mutual discussions over those years. These included no penises in women's changing rooms or toilets ever. No access with or without to any women's groups set up for things where they might be uncomfortable talking freely - such as groups for survivers of abuse from men. Why I gave up my job as a radiographer because one of the team objected to my treating women. Today I bet a trans activist would issue a lawsuit against the NHS over that call and be all over the papers crying at the hatred. Not just understand, accept and move on to something that let you do something useful without causing upset as I did.
I neither see confrontation as the right way to do things or a right - as if you intend to live AS a woman but do not care ABOUT the concerns of women you live alongside then you are probably in the wrong gender identity. Whatever the heck one of those is as I have no idea.
We accepted society was making genuine accommodations for us and we should respect that and offer things in return. It is what decent people do. Give and Take. Not take and sue.
I hate the way these positive things are now being made to seem as if they never happened because the trans community - whatever that is nowadays - are so extraordinarily self centred.
But then if so many of them are AGP men as I fear then it is no surprise.