klarakluckbag
VIP Member
A woman in our antenatal clinic today was very keen to let us know that she "doesn't feel like a woman" and that we must use her (self-chosen) middle name, and that we need to change it on our records, and that her pronouns are they/them, and that she is pansexual. We're a little concerned at her first statement, could she be a victim of some trauma or abuse? Does she have any MH history that we may need to know about? We don't really need to know, nor do we care, about the rest. We'll change her name on the records, she is still linked by other details that we hold, including her sex. We're not changing that. She's having a baby, our clinics are for female patients only and her health could be in danger if she doesn't get the correct care, by doctors and midwives who specialise in women's health.
My colleague made me laugh. After the appointment, she flopped down in her chair, breathed a sigh of relief and said "What a load of self-indulgent, navel-gazing bollocks."
My colleague made me laugh. After the appointment, she flopped down in her chair, breathed a sigh of relief and said "What a load of self-indulgent, navel-gazing bollocks."