Mismatched Pegs
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Yet somehow you never fucking do.
Gobshites.
If you’re genuine and want to post in good faith, that’s great. I just found your opening gambit about having spent your life surrounded by trans women rather suss (unless your parents ran a transvestite club at the latter end of the 20th century, I’m not sure how that’s possible) and your claim to being open to dating a trans woman equally implausible, since you say you were quite the swordsman prior to swearing off dating.Thank you all for the thoughtful responses, I'm going to learn more about "sex realism" as I had not encountered that term before.
If you're familiar with my posts in that thread, you'll be glad to know I have a relevant peep show clip for this situation too.
I am neither manly nor worldly, just an uneducated man with too much time and a desperate need to understand everything. I've been reading tattle for years and years, and GuruGossiper before that, and I know that the person who invited me here is on the hook for my conduct, everything I post is genuine, it is sincerely held beliefs, and my understanding of the world is constantly evolving based on what I learn.
I expected the dating thread comment about sex to be read as pathetic, not positive, I described what I think of as such a pathetic existence, that I thought everyone else would read that way too. A man who spends literally 12 hours a day hunched over a phone swiping on Tinder desperate to have sex with people he doesn't even like is really really pathetic. There's not a single redeeming part of how I chose to be (now I just spend 12 hours a day posting on the internet instead, much better). I didn't even scratch the surface, but figured much of it was better left unsaid. In hindsight I should have realised that it is difficult for a man to talk about sex without all men's sex = conquest = victory = heroic = manly baggage, I should have accounted for that. I can also see how it could also read like I'm trying to be a hero and saviour of women by revealing men's secrets as recompense for all the pathetic things I did but sadly there's no moral impetus, no (misguided) desire to right my wrongs, I am just compelled to participate in the exchange of information at any opportunity.
Anyway, I am not looking to be judged in any specific way, I disclaim that I'm a man when I think it matters in understanding my comment as most users here are assumed to be women (if registration was open, I'm sure there'd be a much higher number of men, lots of men love mess too, the chaos of Jack Monroe can be enjoyed by all) but otherwise I don't mention it, like when commenting about Chris Ingham's liquidation, or negotiating salary or Jason Arday killing himself or academia vs. business. I worry if my posts are disruptive because disruption means less information being shared (which is why I had hoped to delete my post in the dating thread after the comment suggesting it was bad (the shame of my post not being deleted and the ask for it to be deleted staying in the thread is pretty funny in hindsight)) but as long as they're useful in some way, I'm happy to be perceived as stupid or pathetic or foolish or naive or even a genius (not happened yet but maybe someday if I read enough I'll be smart).
Anyway anyway, words words words blah blah blah, in conclusion, I appreciate any time anyone takes to share their perspective on the internet because I crave insight. I'm not trolling over hot button issues, I really have spent dozens maybe even hundreds of hours trying to reconcile my knowledge that men are a danger to women while believing that trans people should have rights. Information is what I live for. I probably write tens of thousands of words per day on the internet, these posts on Tattle barely scratch the surface of my screed (although outside Tattle I'm usually screeding about business instead of things that matter).
Get to fuck! The only nuts they should be bothered about are the ones that go in the peanut butter. Wonder what their maternity policy is? Bet it’s no where near as accommodating.That’s off the shopping list then pip n nut peanut butters
Yeah it's a bit of a liberty "it's not the winning that counts, it's about mental and physical wellbeing" coming from someone who's made a living from winning. Like, fuck the fuck off. Imagine if someone had told her "well yeah Kel, technically you did come first, but we're not going to award you any prize money because you can just make do with that warm fuzzing feeling in your tum tum"I wonder is it's crossed Kelly Holmes' mind that she wouldn't be a Dame or a famous athlete if men were competing against her?
She'd be a nobody and a man would have all her accolades and accomplishments.
KJK (on X) has commented that if you need one of these leaflets, you shouldn't be in the country to which some has added that if you think it will work, you shouldn't be in government.![]()
Understanding behaviours and expectations in the UK: a guide for asylum seekers
Booklet for asylum seekers which explains what is expected of you when living in the UK.www.gov.uk
A 9-page leaflet to download and hand out if in danger of rape.
Worth carrying with you when you go out - keep it in a folder with your copy of For Women Scotland case.
How life is improving for women in this modern age.
I think I might love himEnes Kanter sat courtside for a WNBA game yesterday wearing a Woman Adult human Female t shirt. Got removed from his seat.
We see you WNBA
I think you'll find he has a helmet, it's on the end of his knob
My thoughts exactly. We've gone from "educate me' to 'your husband wouldn't question a troon' with a photo of Rumer Willis thrown in amongst them because she happens to have a prominent jaw.I can see the TRA talking points are starting to come out! How predictable.
Also, if you think a single, highly-posed (and possibly edited) photo = passing, then think for a moment about the other subtle tells that women can see but men often don’t. It’s the height, build, shoulder width, head shape, gait, voice, and so on.
Whereas men think “that TW looks fuckable” and that’s it.
I found breast feeding difficult and ultimately formula gave my baby most of their nutrition. But you'd have had to pry my child out of my cold dead hands before I'd ever allow some sick and twisted man to try to feed them