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"A mother has been hit with a ‘hate incident’ report after failing to call her transgender child by their new name, records show.

The case was reported to police after the youngster complained to teachers, and officers decided that no crime had been committed.

Despite this, they logged it as a non-crime hate incident (NCHI). It is unclear whether officers visited the family or just took down details in case the row escalated.

The spat was revealed as part of a wider probe into NCHIs, which were axed in March amid calls for the police to focus on crime.

More than 500 were recorded in England and Wales in a month last September, and the true number is expected to be far higher.

The Sun reported that 15 of 44 forces, including London’s Met Police refused to reveal details or said the costs of doing so would be too high."
 
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IcanSpellBéchamel said:
I went to Sainsbury's in Nottingham yesterday and not all the scanners have the homophobic Progress Pride logo - some just have the normal Sainsbury's opening screen. I'd say maybe a fifth of the available scanners didn't have the Pride logo. Obviously we chose one without the logo; I wonder if Sainsbury's are monitoring the choices?
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I wouldnt give a flying duck if they were. duck them.......😎 Any bull, and Im off. Plenty of other shops and Supermarkets around if they dont like my views and opinions when trying to brow-beat me with their performative box-ticking rit that doesnt concern them....... **



** their tinned tuna & pasta is rit, anyway 😃😃😆😛
 
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minimaz said:

"A mother has been hit with a ‘hate incident’ report after failing to call her transgender child by their new name, records show.

The case was reported to police after the youngster complained to teachers, and officers decided that no crime had been committed.

Despite this, they logged it as a non-crime hate incident (NCHI). It is unclear whether officers visited the family or just took down details in case the row escalated.

The spat was revealed as part of a wider probe into NCHIs, which were axed in March amid calls for the police to focus on crime.

More than 500 were recorded in England and Wales in a month last September, and the true number is expected to be far higher.

The Sun reported that 15 of 44 forces, including London’s Met Police refused to reveal details or said the costs of doing so would be too high."
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Absolutely ludicrous, isnt it...?
 
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MaineCoonMama

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How ridiculous going to the Fuzz because a mother calls their child by their proper name. It should be logged as wasting police time, ffs.
 
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Legal Gengar was supposed to go on trial today for "harassing" (aka publishing facts ) the stunning and brave Stephanie Hayden. The CPS seem to have been incredibly unprepared and its been pushed back until October. As usual the process is the punishment, how awful to have this hanging over your head for months more

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Legal Gengar trial “shambles”

Stratford Magistrates Court Matthew Heath is the man behind Grift Watch. He is known as Legal Gengar. His trial for the harassment of Stephanie Hayden has been adjourned until 19 October. It was du…
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Mismatched Pegs

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Scotch Mist said:
Is that a man? I guess so if they are aged 43.
Most women wouldn't enter a beauty contest at that age because they'd know that they were too old!
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I loathe beauty pageants anyway but it's something that some women like to take part in and it's all about being female. Obviously, we can't have that and a man must be allowed to be involved. Once again, men making better women than women. And you just know that if he won it'd be all "first transgender blah blah..." Whereas when it's a male dominated field it's "first woman blah blah..." Urgh

They take us for mugs. I'm done with this now. It's relentless.
 
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Ekathrina said:
I’m still wondering if their ethnic background (all of them are Travellers) was a factor in their lenient sentences. The media have gone to great pains to obfuscate this fact, like they often do when offenders come from misogynistic cultures.
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And this is a story where it should be publicised which culture these horrible boys come from. It does make a massive difference. To some extent should these boys have been removed from their families because of this massive safeguarding breach?

Its all very well to bend over backwards to be accepting and to be kind, but not when certain cultures deliberately behave in an anti social way. eg the number of traveller groups currently getting into trouble for wanting to circumvent all the planning rules to build their own traveller sites. Why should they be allowed to break planning laws when no one else is allowed?
 
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sylviepie

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So they're worried about fertility options not being discussed in relation to cancer treatment but crack on with destroying your fertility because you're trans? 🤦🏻‍♀️

And why do only LGBT teenagers need to know about fertility when cancer treatment potentially affects everyone's options in the future?

Interesting response to a Guardian article about "coming out" as religious at work. "Not relevant to work at all", "be yourself but don't force me to have your beliefs", "why do you need to make an announcement" was the tone. Even when people said that someone's religion could influence their work in a positive way they ALWAYS clarified that it stops at the individual. Nobody else should ever have to take part. I wonder what these commenters think about trans beliefs? Did anyone at the guardian read these and have a lightbulb moment?
 
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I completed a survey for the civil service about their hiring practices. I went on a proper rant about bringing your whole self to work. I did stop short at pointing out that bringing ones whole self to work could include fetishes but wish I'd gone the whole hog now.
I've also had those African Christians try to convert me at work. After the 3rd attempt I told them I'd report them for harassment if they raised it again.
 
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minimaz said:
“A mother has been hit with a ‘hate incident’ report after failing to call her transgender child by their new name, records show.

The case was reported to police after the youngster complained to teachers, and officers decided that no crime had been committed.

Despite this, they logged it as a non-crime hate incident (NCHI). It is unclear whether officers visited the family or just took down details in case the row escalated.
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Showing my ignorance here, but when and why were “non crime hate incidents” introduced? Because they’re bleeping outrageous. If it’s not a crime, the police should have no involvement. They are literally punishing people for thought crimes (or in this case, a teenager having a row with their mum).

The teachers who called the police can go duck themselves as well. It’s disgusting, how many activist teachers we have in secondary schools, thinking their job is to save their pupils from “bigoted” parents.
 
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Mismatched Pegs said:
"Everybody is welcome on our buses"
Well, yeah, you're a bus company, you can't go round discriminating against people. Out of interest, how many wheelchairs can be accommodated on your bus at any one time? Pushchairs? How many of your drivers have received dementia training?
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You didn’t think meaningful actual diversity was the point did you?

like with most things/places, I don’t see how what you like sexually has any impact on the service being offered 😒
 
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