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sylviepie

sylviepie

It's disability awareness month from 20th November to 20th December. I see every organisation has it's banners and cynical money making products out...
 
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funkimunki1984

funkimunki1984

WitchyGrab said:
Sis, I don‘t mean this in a trite way - sending strength (which you clearly already have a lot of) and solidarity. 🖤

The way disability is treated in society is vile and ableist, as if it is a personal and moral issue, rather than a material one. When I was dealing with my MS diagnosis, some #bekind friends refused to believe that I was very ill and went wild when I spoke about disability, yet were very TWAW. They claimed I was trying to develop a ‚disabled identity‘!!! The cognitive dissonance was so strong in those women and life feels a lot kinder without them in it. Oh the irony, that these #bekind (aka policing other women with opinions) people are often total judgemental witches, lacking in any form of critical analysis of life and any real care for their fellow humans, other than their pathetic social media platitudes.

If you have to say be kind, it means you are probably the opposite.
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You too lovely. Thank you so much. We definitely have an abundance of strength, although some days it never seems like there’s enough.

The be kind brigade get on my swede no end. Quick to defend those who try to take away women’s rights and disability rights but also quick to tell you it can’t be that bad. I’ve had some family members tell me that there are people worse off than me as I’m able to talk and walk (albeit with a cane and sometimes a wheelchair). I just can’t deal with them and have minimal contact with them. Seems Forrest Gump was right “stupid is as stupid does.”
 
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WitchyGrab

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Sorry be navel gazing but in a previous post, I refered to ‚judgemental witches‘. I want to provide clarification that I don’t use that pejorative in a ‚gendered‘ way (gender in a second wave feminist context). Although I referred to an experience with women, this ableism and be unkind attitude cuts across sexes.
 
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WitchyGrab

WitchyGrab

*referred

I hate making typos! Oh the shame, the shame! 🫢 Soz for clogging the conversation with this lil post.

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Skyline89

JAR21 said:
Labour are a disgrace

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I read a meme online that said the government are like the bottom set doing a class project. Completely accurate and terrifying at the same time.

The lack of serious people in authority with any ability to understand working people and women is frightening.

I felt so positive with all the steps to row some of this nonsense back during the first half of the year. The rot and need to prioritise men will never stop 😶
 
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Gomi goner

Gomi goner

TheMiceInTheShed said:
And yet trans women saying they identify as a woman, doesn't invalidate the lived experience of women? Really?
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They literally cannot see beyond their own noses.
They cannot see or emphasise or even sympathise ironically, with group they claim to be part of (women).
Except I guess thats the problem, male t's (that is my new unadulterated description of them now) KNOW they're not women because they somehow think they're actually superior to us 🤮😡
 
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Gomi goner

Gomi goner

Maybe we all just need to start using the word 'identify' more often, in every day talk, correspondence, etc... make it a common part of the vernacular and like kids with their 'cool words' (because let's face it, these t's are mentally stunted), if everyone else start using it, it loses it's cachet and coolness. 🤷‍♀️
I'll start...
I identify as an educated, intelligent, critical thinking, science believing, staunch feminst. 💜💚

While I'm on a role...
I also identify as an emphatic, caring, generous, animal loving vegetarian.
I'd like to be vegan and am working on it. Obviously I'm not one already or you would all know this already because every sentence I type would begin with "Did you know I'm a vegan?" 😂
 
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minimaz

JAR21 said:
Labour are a disgrace

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How on earth does she expect a guidance to cover every eventuality or potential emergency situation?

We all know this isn't about pregnant women having an emergency need and going into the mens at the theatre.

Of course they're trans exclusive, this is about sex.

Also claiming the SC in FWS was mostly about maternity, it did cover that but the underlying issue was are trans women with a GRC legally women under the equality act and they're not. Waiting longer for the guidance won't make the ruling go away
 
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Funny_bunny

Funny_bunny

petitspois said:
Identify is the same as pretend.
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This is exactly what they remind me of. A small child saying, “But I am a……” .fairy/horse/dog/cat/ whatever and then sticking their fingers in their ears and going, “La la la” when adults don‘t go along with it. Is there any other thing that grown adults can pretend to be, and we all have to just blindly accept that they’ve said it therefore it’s true?
 
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Regina Fellangi

minimaz said:
How on earth does she expect a guidance to cover every eventuality or potential emergency situation?

We all know this isn't about pregnant women having an emergency need and going into the mens at the theatre.

Of course they're trans exclusive, this is about sex.

Also claiming the SC in FWS was mostly about maternity, it did cover that but the underlying issue was are trans women with a GRC legally women under the equality act and they're not. Waiting longer for the guidance won't make the ruling go away
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The ridiculous comment about banning t's from women o my spaces would mean a mother wouldn’t be able to take her infant son into that space with her! FFS!!! She knows that’s not true. Mothers have always and will continue to take their babies 👶 f either sec with them into a female only space. No one will EVER question them about it. It’s utter lunacy to use this argument to try and justify letting men into women’s spaces. How TF did we manage before trans became a thing? What a time to be alive 😡
 
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Regina Fellangi

Regina Fellangi said:
The ridiculous comment about banning t's from women o my spaces would mean a mother wouldn’t be able to take her infant son into that space with her! FFS!!! She knows that’s not true. Mothers have always and will continue to take their babies 👶 f either sec with them into a female only space. No one will EVER question them about it. It’s utter lunacy to use this argument to try and justify letting men into women’s spaces. How TF did we manage before trans became a thing? What a time to be alive 😡
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So many typos! Apologies. You get the gist.
 
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Scotch Mist

Scotch Mist

Regina Fellangi said:
The ridiculous comment about banning t's from women o my spaces would mean a mother wouldn’t be able to take her infant son into that space with her! FFS!!! She knows that’s not true. Mothers have always and will continue to take their babies 👶 f either sec with them into a female only space. No one will EVER question them about it. It’s utter lunacy to use this argument to try and justify letting men into women’s spaces. How TF did we manage before trans became a thing? What a time to be alive 😡
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Not many women are going to be brave enough to face off against men using their facilities. We previously relied on the fact that the majority of men were decent about it and wouldn't want to invade our privacy.

The trans cult is part of women hating culture that has increased this century. Men didn't like the rise of feminism and I've seen loads commenting on line that it's our own fault because we wanted equality. Basically men just want to get the upper hand back (as if it ever went away) because they feel threatened.

These weirdos who get off on being women think it gives them power over other men. They imagine that women revel in being 'sexy and alluring' and hate that we get to choose who we mate with. It's because men think about sex all the time failing to realise that most women don't spend much time thinking about sex at all in comparison.
 
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