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Okay, first off if she is self employed and not putting aside money for her own pension then she needs to fire her accountant and financial advisor. She says "holiday payless" yet I'm pretty sure she manages to get parts of her trip or her whole trip paid for by hotels and brands in return for features on her page, so that's a load of crap. And what tutorials and style tips from her? All she posts is pictures of herself in underwear. I'm not styling underwear for a photoshoot.
And finally: I'm angry influencers are getting free things because most influencers CAN AFFORD TO BUY THE PRODUCTS THEMSELVES. We are literally in the most unstable economic time since 2008 and companies are STILL sending people who don't need free crap, free crap. It's disgusting.
As someone diagnosed with both BPD and Bipolar in no way a professional I can see some of the traits in her but also more narcissistic in nature at the same time. There is no doubt that she has been through some horrific things but even at that having a mental illness is no excuse for being a fool and acting the way she does. At some point you have to hold yourself accountable for your actions and not just blame your mental illness I know i was guilty of doing just that. If she got some proper help and I know it is hard I spent years begging for help as I was destroying relationships with everyone around me.
he was in a boozer I was in a while ago and listening to the conversation- I can confirm yes
God, I hope she sees this post. You nailed it.
Her argument about getting free tit is a total joke. Her view is so utterly skewed by her own self importance, laziness and myopia.
Cannot believe she doesn’t contribute to a pension! That’s shocking. There is literally no excuse, it’s not as if she’s stuck between the choice to put food on the table or pay into a pension. Between this and it seeming likely she didn’t have pet insurance for Inca, I think I can see a possible reason why George needs to e-beg: it’s not because she doesn’t have enough income, it’s because she’s fully crap with money.
Yep, I agree. It takes a lot of self reflection and accountability. I dont think shes quite there yet!
I think she just exploring her trauma. She’s perhaps just getting toward a diagnosis so I think kindness is best here? (As has been shown).
Lots of people don’t have a pension. My partner doesn’t- self employed. It happens. A lot of employees opt out of pension schemes. It’s not a signifier of anything and doesn’t make her situation especially unique.
Lots of people don’t have a pension. My partner doesn’t- self employed. It happens. A lot of employees opt out of pension schemes. It’s not a signifier of anything and doesn’t make her situation especially unique.
She is / was in therapy. Only a few months ago she was flogging some freebie online counselling she had been gifted, this was of course after she had mentioned she was paying privately for therapy ! I struggle to believe that a 31 year old woman has so little self awareness, we all have had things happen to us which are painful etc but choose not to behave in the vulgar manner she does. Her petulant outburst are usually off the back of someone daring to hold her to account for her actions. The bike incident being the latest unnecessary drama she brought upon herself ! And poor poor Inca, the way she was picking up the poor cats paw minutes after she was home from the vets in order to take pics for her Instagram was thoughtless and unkind.
yes!! I cringed with her picking up and wiggling the paw of that poor cat. If my cat would‘ve been injured like that I would be a mess and it wouldn’t occur to me to complain about the cat having hurt itself. I would be too worried. She’s just a selfish lazy c*nt that was more worried about having to get out of bed...
Those petulant outbursts can actually be a behavioural symptom of disorders like BPD. When shes having her behaviour shown back to her. She definitely needs accountability. I know when Caroline Flack died, some of the reports of her behaviour really made me uneasy because it made me think of some of my behaviours. Its complex, I guess.
Mental health is incredibly complex I agree but whilst I'm no expert, the manner in which she behaves is more in keeping with a selfish do what I want attitude and woe betide anyone who has the audacity to question it then someone struggling with bipolar. In my opinion she is a charlatan and is ruthless in her pursuit to cash in on the people that follow her.
Maybe its just too close to home for me 
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lolI do understand how you can associate thats for sure. I have 2 friends with diagnosed bi polar and one thing I can say having experienced lots with both of them, your moral compass about what is right and wrong as a person does not switch off just because you have BP.Maybe its just too close to home for me
BPD is a seperate diagnosis to Bipolar. Generally, i'd say that depends on what stage youre at. When I was younger, my behaviour was shocking but with a lot of work and growing up, I did learn to cop on and be responsible and watch for triggers and try and set boundaries. I still find it hard at times, and the behaviours can be toxic, but I do actively try. It doesn't appear that she does that. Shes unashamedly herself, and that would be fine but shes actually harming herself more by running with those emotions and defenced instead of learning how to regulate them.
But do you not also think that a vast majority of the time she uses the I'm quick to temper, highly strung etc as an excuse for her awful behaviour? I honestly think that she knows exactly what she is doing, the post today points to a highly articulate woman who is able to write very eloquently, unless of course it's not her actually writing her posts!
One of the things that prevented me getting help was doctors telling me so often "youre very self aware and articulate, so you should be able to manage"
I hated that, because having a mental illness doesnt mean youre dense. In fact, I find it harder when you can see and understand it all because you still feel the emotions.But yes, I do understand what you mean. The impression I get from her, is that she completely rides the wave of it all. She knows these things about herself, she knows there are things that could help but she just doesnt want to have to change herself to fit in to those ways.. even though, those changes could actually ease alot of her emotional turbulence. Its exhausting being hyper emotional. Its ok to say you are, but for your own mental well being, its important to take measures to ease that suffering. I feel she takes it as its her identity when it shouldnt be who you are, its just a part of you & how you work. There does have to be a point where you stop allowing your diagnosis be the fall guy.
I love that last sentence and definitely sums up how she excuses her outbursts.One of the things that prevented me getting help was doctors telling me so often "youre very self aware and articulate, so you should be able to manage"
But yes, I do understand what you mean. The impression I get from her, is that she completely rides the wave of it all. She knows these things about herself, she knows there are things that could help but she just doesnt want to have to change herself to fit in to those ways.. even though, those changes could actually ease alot of her emotional turbulence. Its exhausting being hyper emotional. Its ok to say you are, but for your own mental well being, its important to take measures to ease that suffering. I feel she takes it as its her identity when it shouldnt be who you are, its just a part of you & how you work. There does have to be a point where you stop allowing your diagnosis be the fall guy.
It does make me feel abit sad, that someone is in that place. It just adds to their distress.
There she goes again begging for likes. Maybe it is because it is getting old?
Maybe it is because it is getting old?And we are all about to be educated on how to pose in our knickers by the person who has a one pose for all approach ! Such a shame that not one of her friends has pointed out to her the weird backward hand on hip , clawed hand to the neck and the weird faces she pulls are really not attractive! And don't get me started on the forward thrust leg thing she does in every outfit she wears ! How she imagines plucking her face whilst begging for likes is any incentive for people to double tap on her is beyond me ! She really isn't funny !
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