Of course vlogs will never tell the full story, but at the same time, viewers are not stupid, and there is a lot that can be learned about the dynamics of a family from vlogs. The Freers were always chaotic, spendaholics, lazy and generally a bit crap in terms of parenting. Gary could be crass and definitely had his moments of being "a blokes bloke" but as PPs have said, his general commitment to his family was there for all to see. Painting Abbie's flat, all the days out, picnics, driving them all everywhere, all the shopping and traipsing round after them, the cooking... Kirsty was out here there and everywhere, always had nice clothes and hair done. Gary was bottom of the list in that house and it showed. So the accusations that are being thrown about now just don't add up.
If she fell out of love with him, if she had her head turned, if she was just sick of the drudgery and needed a change, then that is fine. No one should stay in a relationship if they don't want to be there. But to insinuate on the internet that he was abusive, with no proof, is a really low blow. Therefore, in MY opinion, considering the fact she made the dig about Shannon's "real" dad, blowing that all out of the water, and has now moved on to a new man, all in all, the facts in front of me paint Kirsty in a far worse light than Gary.