If she is the one clinging on why has he still got his wedding ring on?
Its all very weird
Because they’re not a ‘squad’ anymore and I suspect she’ll be dropped like a hot cake when there’s a serious new woman (or new child) on the scene. I mean, they could have spent the last 18 months at each other’s throats and have moved past that but honestly neither of them are demonstrating any boundaries in the separation. I divorced my husband after 11 years of marriage- together since we were 17 so I get how Fran feels with regard to his family being her family- and although it was my decision and amicable in terms of no affairs etc it was still
tit to have to carve up our life and finances and it was impossible for us to spend any family time together without pangs of what could have been - it was really hurtful. The first time he came to pick up the kids without his wedding ring on I cried for hours. The first time I wasn’t invited to a family meal stung because it felt like his family had picked a side. Everytime we would get on for a few hours (and have sex, because that felt comfortable) it set us back in terms of moving on. It’s also confused our kids and have the eldest false hope of reconciliation. I appreciate everyone is different but I think they are far from the norm and they need some distance from each other to be able to grieve the end of their relationship/life as they imagined it.
I hope that Fran has an outlet in real life to cry and scream and say hateful things about him. As I said before I also really hope she has a
tit hot lawyer and gets a fair deal in the divorce - she’s built diversity with him and enabled his career whilst looking after his kids (and possibly reputation) . Ashley strikes me as a man who wouldn’t want to halve his assets and its hard to separate emotions from the practicalities in a divorce - unfortunately the gloves have to come off at some point.